The biggest characteristic of a man who is single due to his strength is that he is "straight", has direct ideas, is simple and rough in the way he does things, and has extensive thoughts, which is exactly the opposite of the girl's iconic delicacy and gentleness. Naturally, some problems will inevitably arise when chasing girls:
1. Like to be a life mentor to girls< /h2>
This is a mistake that most single men make because of their ability. They mistakenly think that when girls confide in them, they are seeking their help.
For example:
A girl complained about her weird supervisor in the group, and then three or four girls in the group immediately complained about that supervisor, and also complained about it. How terrible her manager or boss is. Although after complaining, the weird supervisor will continue to be weird, but in fact, this is a girl who needs to vent her anger and needs someone to understand her, instead of asking a teacher to tell her who is against whom. wrong.
2. Just do it, don’t say it
Single men who rely on their strength are very practical and do what they say. , not ambiguous at all.
So their biggest characteristic is that they keep their heads down and do things silently, rarely express themselves in words, and almost never reveal their inner thoughts or share their feelings and emotions.
They think, don’t I like you enough? You see me working from dawn to dusk to support my family, you see me working for you like an Anshan horse, you see every time you ask me to go shopping with you, I am not On call?
But girls often say something that directly makes them feel depressed: "I feel like you don't love me" "You never coax me"
Just It seems that a couple once had a quarrel, and the girl's inner thoughts were the same:
"When we first got together, I thought he liked me and loved me very much, but as time went by, I gradually found that I was starting to feel more and more lost. ”
“Girls are very emotional creatures, and when we like someone, we can’t help but want to share it with him, just like when I finish reading a novel, I will share it with him. I have a lot of feelings about me, but he never seems to tell me too much about his inner thoughts."
"He said that he works so hard so that we can be better together in the future. . But you know, he suppresses these thoughts in his heart. What I see is that he seems to be very busy every day. I don’t know what he is busy with. Then the messages are getting slower and slower, and he spends less and less time with me. "
"He loves me and wants to take better care of me, why doesn't he say it?"
3. Can’t read girls’ little hints
In real life, girls still try to maintain theirShyness due to maintaining image. However, at this time, there are still a large number of single men who are single because they do not understand the little thoughts of girls, cannot read their little hints, and are always worried that they will appear particularly rash if they do it.
As everyone knows, sometimes, if you are shy and reserved along with girls, girls will actually be disappointed: Give you a chance, why are you so stupid, you are useless!
If girls are interested in you, or even like you (and are willing to date you alone), they are actually expecting you to do something, but honest "straight men" still feel that they have to restrain themselves and are particularly embarrassed. If you take the initiative to upgrade your relationship, then you are really single based on your strength.
