Have you ever discovered that love was really simple in the past? At that time, one person, one line, and one letter would do, and the contact information was single. The feelings of two people separated could only be conveyed through letters, and there was no timely feedback, so it was necessary If you spend more time to understand each other, know each other, love each other, and stay together, you may receive more beautiful things.
So now, it is more timely. With the development of science and technology, our communication is more convenient. Now we have enough time to understand. Some people can even comment on the takeout. We started chatting like this, and while we were chatting, the two of us ended up being single, so that was okay. But the editor wants to say that even if it is so convenient now, you don’t need to be nervous when chasing girls. Generally speaking, you should not chase girls for more than four months. Why?
Why you should not pursue a girl for more than four months
1. There is the possibility of replacement
Nowadays, the information age is in a state of explosion. There are countless social software. Some people stay up every night, scrolling there, and casually meet beautiful ladies and brothers. Of course. Pay attention, it may be an online photo, so be careful of being deceived, especially for those who are trustworthy for the first time. People always come to me and ask me, oh, I am going to meet her tomorrow, what should I pay attention to, be careful of being deceived.
The current state is that a lot of personal information can be exchanged in a short period of time. After all, many people cannot refuse someone who is lying on the camera, right? But in fact, you also know that the more people you come into contact with, the more people she comes into contact with, so the longer it takes, the greater the possibility of you being replaced, not to mention that girls nowadays have a lot of emotional catharsis.
For example, idols are the kind of men in fantasy. It may be when you get along with girls, eh, you may not really give girls that feeling, which will lead to some problem. Woolen cloth? Girls will also consider you, and you will also consider, is it a problem that you have with the girls, or is it because you don't know how to upgrade the relationship, causing the relationship to stagnate? The best opportunity for remediation was missed.
2. Decreased attractiveness
Secondly, the longer you delay, the less attractive you will be. , it will decline when it peaks to a certain point, and girls will directly list all of your increased points as deducted points in the later stage, so when you first start chasing girls, you don’t have enough understanding. , at this time your advantages will be amplified and other characteristics will be introduced. This is the halo effect.
is particularly large, and then the points deduction may double over time, so generally speaking, after four months, girls will easily characterize you as a friend, brother, er, bestie, a licker, or even a taker, an honest person. Then no matter how hard you try to please, it will be difficult to make a big breakthrough. Also with this understanding As it deepens, those shortcomings will gradually be exposed, and then your cognition, life differences, starting from some small conflicts, she will need to pay a greater cost, so to tolerate such unfavorable factors, So if given a choice, she may really not choose you.
Of course, the editor only recommends that you must upgrade to the late line or enter the beauty stage four months ago, don’t delay.
