Many boys understand attraction by knowing what type of boys girls like, and then they lean towards the boys girls like and dress themselves up to look like girls. Maybe you can really attract a girl's attention in a short period of time, but this is only a temporary illusion of attraction. As you get more involved with girls, your true colors will come out, and girls will still lose their appeal. So how should boys improve their attractiveness? How to make girls like you?
1. Discover your unique charm
Everyone has his or her own unique charm, whether it is expertise, hobbies, thoughts, personality, etc., but many people actually don’t have it. Discovered your own beauty. In fact, chasing girls requires self-confidence, and the prerequisite for self-confidence is that you must first learn to appreciate and affirm yourself. By the way, if you don’t even love yourself if you are not confident, how can you make a girl fall in love with you?
Therefore, the first step is to explore your strengths and advantages. What can you use to surpass others, or what can bring you confidence. For example, you are a top student. Although you are average in appearance, you are very smart and can learn everything quickly. This is your unique advantage. There are also people who can sing, play musical instruments, and write poems. When they show their talents, they will exude a different temperament, making it easy for girls to fall for them.
Even if you feel that you are just a mediocre ordinary person and feel that you have nothing to shine, that doesn’t matter. At least you have a good personality. Well, if you take good care of girls and make them feel warm and friendly, some girls will still notice you.
2. Show your exclusive value
If you can discover your own unique charm, it only means that you have confidence in love. The next step is to Your charisma shines through. Don't think that you are good enough for girls to notice you. Sometimes you won't express yourself. According to the passive nature of girls, she won't take the initiative to get to know you. Instead of waiting passively, it is better to take the initiative to find opportunities to show your unique value and let girls know about you.
The reason why some boys are pursued by girls is not because of how outstanding and dazzling he is, but because he knows how to show his exclusive value to others, so he can attract girls to him. Chase backwards.
Then how should boys boldly show their advantages and values to the girls around them? For example, take a photo when you go to the gym to show your body management in your circle of friends; or give a speech that can prove your eloquence, and sing a seemingly casual and beautiful song at KTV...
Deep Boys and girls who know how to get along between the sexes will know how to seize this highlight moment. The muscular boy deliberately does exercises and moves things in front of the girl to fully demonstrate his boyfriend power; the tall girl shows off her long legs and small waist.Steadily hit the opponent's aesthetic point.
As long as you can express yourself, a girl who appreciates you will naturally be attracted to you. Then when you pursue her, as long as you release your affection appropriately, she will respond to you.
