Boys must think that an older single woman is easier to pursue. After all, she has reached her age and will become older and older if she doesn’t leave the single family. In fact, a girl’s youth is very short-lived, so chasing an older single woman will definitely be a problem as soon as she pursues her. Agree. But the reality is often not like this. If a girl is really so easy to chase, why would she wait until she is older? Let me share with you how to woo an older single woman?
1. Reasons why girls are single at older ages
I have met many older girls, and there are many reasons why they have not married yet. In fact, it is not what many people think that older girls have higher mate selection requirements and feel that no one is good enough for them, but most girls of this type have a common characteristic: that is, they are not interested in relationships. The spiritual needs are relatively high.
Really material girls are easier to marry. They set goals for themselves when they were young and began to look for the best partners in their best years very early, so they usually rush to get married. I married myself before I was older. Behind the seemingly easy process, on the one hand, it is good planning, and on the other hand, if you only value material things, you don’t pay much attention to spirit. In fact, such conditions are not very high.
The problem is that older girls’ standards are abstract and they want everything materially and spiritually. The difficulty is not entirely material, but spiritual. A 'feeling' and a 'spirit' can block many peach blossoms behind the door.
It is not difficult to understand the inner requirements of older girls.
1. I have been relatively late-maturing and conservative in terms of emotions since childhood. I am relatively outstanding personally, reserved and have my own life. I am kind and empathetic, and I think more rationally;
2. I have my own fantasies about relationships. Unfortunately, in reality, I am more stubborn and have a high threshold for relationships, so I am not so easily tempted;
3. I don’t have that many interactions and contacts with the opposite sex in real life. Some girls They are more interested in film and television dramas or two-dimensional paper boyfriends than real men, and their understanding of the opposite sex is more theoretical on paper. She might even help her best friend resolve her relationship, but she would hesitate to actually do it herself.
2. How to woo an older single girl
According to the above analysis, single girls who can keep dragging on in their older age often lack the sense of urgency most of the time (people around them at least have Single, you can call him out and play with you at any time). In addition, your life circle is narrow, and you want to find someone but never take action.
Based on this objective condition, if a boy wants to enter her life, he also needs to be relatively consistent with both the internal and external conditions of your partner. Being able to insist on not compromising just shows that everyone still wants it.
We must know that the emotional and spiritual compatibility that older single women pursue comes from in-depth understanding, which requires a certain range of extensive screening. To be screened, it means that she needs to spend a certain amount of time socializing and contactingA lot of people, and then see who is attractive enough to her and has the right temperament and personality. These are not things that can be seen at first glance, but gradually the degree of compatibility with each other is understood in the process of dating and contact. Therefore, the most important thing if you want to woo an older single woman is to have more contact with her.
As for how to attract her after contact, you need to understand her inner world. Only when she believes that you and her spirit Only if you are compatible will she be able to truly accept you, which is very testing.
