For a girl who is ambiguous with him, a boy's idea should be to keep the relationship ambiguous for a while and then find an opportunity to finalize the relationship. But I didn't expect that you are still here trying to establish a relationship with the ambiguous girl, but the girl turns her head and starts to keep a distance from you. This makes many boys start to panic. What does it mean for girls to suddenly keep their distance after the ambiguity?
1. You have entered the friendship zone
In reality, many men and women become friends after being ambiguous, because in the beginning, girls actually have feelings for you very much. We started to be ambiguous with you, but after being ambiguous for a long time, the girl didn’t see you doing anything related to pictures. Gradually, because of the boy’s lack of initiative, the girl began to pay attention to those boys who showed stronger signals to her. Once a girl identifies a better potential boyfriend, she will keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex (including you).
Therefore, it is okay for boys and girls to be ambiguous, but the ambiguous time must not be too long. It is best not to be ambiguous for more than a month, otherwise if the girl finds someone else to be ambiguous with, then you may have to be friends with her.
2. Overexposure of needs
Being together between men and women is actually the result of mutual attraction. If individuals can be ambiguous, it means that they both have a good impression of each other. At this time, your relationship is still relatively equal. But if you over-expose your sense of need during this ambiguous process, for example, after a few days of ambiguity, you will identify yourself as your quasi-boyfriend, start daily confession check-ins, and say good morning and night, creating a relationship atmosphere where "you have to be her".
Maybe at first the girl thinks you care about her and that you attach great importance to her, but when she calms down she will feel a lot of pressure. Because the girl doesn't know you very well at this time, and her affection for you is only 4 or 5 points, so she won't be able to bear the 8 points of love you have for her. Therefore, ambiguous girls will subconsciously keep a distance from you.
3. Excessive interference in girls’ lives
Many boys think that if a girl is willing to be ambiguous with him, that means she is willing to accept him. , so I don’t pay attention to propriety in my actions and words, and I act like a quasi-boyfriend. When a girl stayed up late, he would tell her, "It's bad for girls' skin to stay up late, so you should go to bed early!" When the girl was having dinner with other friends of the opposite sex, he would be jealous. The girl didn't have time to get the news about something, and afterwards she asked her all kinds of questions... It's like this before the relationship is confirmed. Do girls still expect to be in a formal relationship with you? Of course I will keep my distance from you.
Excessive interference in a girl’s life in an ambiguous state will only push her further and further away.
4. Girls have cognitive bias towards you
In fact, men and women have just started toWhen we met, we felt good about each other, and maybe the image you created for girls was also good. But if your own image is different from the image you create for girls, then girls will naturally keep a distance from you after seeing your true image. This is the same reaction we have when we see girls’ photos and real people.
For example, you used to be a sunny, handsome and warm-hearted image in the hearts of girls. But look through your circle of friends. Have you recently posted a selfie of yourself with unkempt hair and slippers? If the answer is yes, then the reason is most likely due to this kind of photo.
There must be a reason why a girl suddenly keeps a distance after the ambiguity. Go and reflect on what problems have arisen between you. Know how to turn the situation around.
