If a man and a woman can be ambiguous, it means that they had a chance to be together in the first place, but they may not have broken through the relationship during the ambiguous period, and then they gradually became indifferent to each other until they stopped talking. After the ambiguous relationship between a man and a woman stops talking, is there still a chance for development? What to do?
Both parties stopped talking after the ambiguity between a man and a woman
I have a practical friend who said to me: Chatting between men and women is meaningless and fruitless. The topic is We'll finish talking. If you are in the same city at this time, make an appointment to go hiking, watch movies, etc. Only in this way can there be results. The two of you have to intersect in reality.
It’s true. It’s nonsense to just chat with a girl to create feelings. You have to understand reality, so that you can get closer to each other. Just chatting is just an illusion for the other party, and there is no The collision of souls, there is no eye contact or physical communication. You must know that body language and eyes are a very important part of the courtship process, do you understand?
I chatted with a girl before, for an hour or two every day, for two months (it makes you mistakenly believe that this It’s love, it’s more than 2,000 kilometers away from home, and I won’t be able to go back for a while), call me when you’re fine, happy or sad, at work or off work, a pretty girl, I thought this was love ( In fact, this is indeed the prelude to love), but I have not been with her for a long time, which is doomed that this relationship will not be fruitful. We couldn't run long distances in different places, and we didn't know each other very well at that time, so it was not a problem to be apart for a few months.
Suddenly one day, she said that we should chat less frequently in the future. It took up too much of my time and I couldn’t do anything else. In fact, I had feelings about this before. I felt that we talked too much in the past two months (chatting every day, calling every day, she called me as soon as she got off work), so that we ran out of topics to talk about and no time to care about each other. The trace of fantasy no longer has passion and freshness.
Don’t say she brought it up at this time. In fact, if she didn’t say it, it would be quite embarrassing for me. I started the video and made a phone call, but I didn’t know what to say. How are you? Have you eaten? What to eat? Is there anything new at work (how can there be so many new things at work)?
Generally, by this time, it becomes more embarrassing. She feels that you are no longer a humorous person, there is no stimulation, and there is no sense of freshness anymore. At this time, it becomes more embarrassing, and what you find is still It was timely, and there was still time to remedy the situation.
When ambiguous men and women chat until they have nothing to talk about, it is actually over and they need to start dating together. Have a coffee, watch a movie, or have a meal. The movie theater is so dark. Slowly try to hold her hand. It’s okay to resist a little. Just hold her still. It depends on whether you dare to do it. Facts have proved that the more you dare to take action, the more likely you are to hold her hand. If you refuse at the time, I will depend on you for everything after you finish it., women are all revealed through dating, not through chatting.
The first time he was acquainted, the second time he became acquainted. He often asked her out to play, so that she could get used to having you in his life instead of having you in her WeChat and turning you into a tree hole. You have to become an indispensable part of her life. She feels that without you, the world will be less exciting, less happy, and less sunny.
So what should I do if both men and women stop talking after they are ambiguous? The top priority is to meet and date, commonly known as face-to-face. Then do whatever you need to do. Only when you understand, will she listen to you and only follow your will. Women are slow to warm up, you have to give her some work, warm her up, and everything will fall into place.
