When flirting with girls, you sometimes encounter girls who are hot and cold. This situation really makes many boys give up halfway and feel intimidated. How should we flirt with this unpredictable attitude? What causes girls to be hot and cold? What is the psychology of girls?
Girls are hot and cold. Reasons for being hot and cold
How to seduce girls who are hot and cold, you should understand the attitudes of men and women in love. Boys : In love, it “gets hot very quickly”, your heart is pounding, your love is surging, you want to confess your feelings after saying a few words, plan a date after chatting for a few days, and think about holding hands → hugging → on the first date... However, , Girls: In love, it is like a "thermostat cup", "No matter how you chase her, she is neither cold nor hot
" - This is a relative concept, for boys during this period It has been a long time, but for girls, it is just the prelude to the assessment period. With the establishment of a love relationship, a girl's love will warm your heart like a thermos cup.
In the pursuit stage, girls are like examiners and will make many tests in their hearts. If you pass, the relationship will be closer. If you fail, your score may be lowered. However, this kind of test is completely unpredictable for boys. It may be a daily living habit, it may be the way a thing is handled, or it may be that you look at a beautiful woman one more time...
How to flirt with a girl who is hot and cold
Negative teaching material 1: "She must have suddenly had someone else in her heart, and then she treated me Just ignore her, forget it, this kind of scumbag is not worth pursuing."
This is a wrong idea guided by subjective consciousness. In his subconscious, he will think: I want to chat with her. I hope I can get a reply from her. She should reply to me after I send a message. Hot and cold is just to whet my appetite and play with my feelings.
If you are unable to do something, you should seek others from yourself. In fact, you should think about whether it is the topic that you ran out of and you can't pick up the topic? Therefore, to tease a girl, you should find a more interesting topic so that she will feel interested in chatting with you. Boys who are not good at chatting should do more Be well prepared for this.
Negative teaching material 2: Always praising girls, approving of girls, and talking about gossip news that girls like, but the conversation never lasts long.
This kind of flattery chat seems too deliberate and boring. I believe that no one would like to chat with someone who only agrees with their own opinions but has no own thoughts and reflections. Therefore, deliberately catering will only make you look like a licking dog. Only by finding the common interests of the two of you can you have a long and happy chat.
What is the psychology of girls who are hot and cold?
Lack of security. When a girl is being pursued, her psychology is sometimes quite contradictory. She doesn't quite believe in your sincerity, but she is also afraid of losing your sincerity. When her two mental states alternate, you feel this hot and cold feeling. attitude.
Test your sincerity. Some girls are slow to warm up and lack self-confidence, so they are always suspicious of a boy's courtship and want to test the boy's sincerity through repeated tests. For example, "hot and cold", she may think that if you really love her, you will insist on looking for her.
