There are many reasons why a girl’s attitude becomes cold. It may be because of her personality, she may not be interested in chatting with you, or she may not like you. So how do you judge whether a girl with a cold attitude should continue to pursue you?
1. Girls are passive social creatures
Girls are passive social creatures in love, the more passive they become The more initiative you have. Similar to players playing football freely on the field, the referee will only respond when a goal is scored or a foul is committed. You are the player and the girl is the referee. You need to take the initiative and the referee decides whether the goal is valid.
Even if a girl likes you, she will basically not lead you to pursue her. She hopes that you will find your own way to pursue her. Therefore, as boys, we have the responsibility to lead. Even if girls are indifferent, we must continue to move forward until the referee blows the whistle. Don't expect girls to take the initiative.
2. Being cold at the beginning
If you have just met a girl, it is very correct for the girl to show coldness at this time. Just like a new player who has just come on the court, you cannot ask the referee to have a favorable opinion of you immediately. You need to show your abilities and your shining points in order to change the referee's opinion of you.
The reason why girls are cold at the beginning may be that they don’t like your type from the beginning, or they may not feel your charm yet. You need to try and change through hard work. If a girl always remains cold, it means that you cannot make her heart beat with this one.
3. The enthusiasm gradually fades away
This is also the situation that most brothers encounter. Girls always He was enthusiastic at first, but gradually cooled down. At the beginning, you may have a good start, and the girl is still giving you a chance to feel your charm. If you fail to seize the opportunity, the girl's initial goodwill towards you will disappear, and the girl will become cold.
It’s similar to when you first met a friend and felt that the other person was very nice. However, after getting in touch with him, you found out that this was not the case, and you no longer treated him so well.
If you encounter this situation, it means that your success rate is already very low. Because the girl has fully experienced your charm, the answer she gave is no, and she has already labeled you, unless you can make her look at you with admiration.
4. Girls don’t like your chat
In some cases, girls have a crush on this person, but your chat skills are too poor. You always talk to girls who can’t answer the conversation or feel interested. Interesting content. This gives you the illusion that girls are getting colder and colder. For example, you always talk to girls about the economic situation, education and philosophy, but girls are often not interested in these types of topics.
When encountering this situation, you should change the topic in time and change the topic to something that girls are more interested in and easier to accept.Bring up the topic of conversation. For example, topics such as horoscopes, travel, food, drink and fun.
5. Girls don’t like you
If a girl has explicitly or implicitly rejected you, refuse to accept your offer Gifts and rejection of your advances mean that she is really not calling or interested in you. It means that the girl has rejected you as a person, and it has nothing to do with your behavior.
If a girl doesn’t like you, it has nothing to do with your behavior or your pursuit method. Even if you change your pursuit method, the girl will still reject you. Therefore, it is recommended to give up the pursuit for the time being. If you continue to pursue her, the girl will feel that you are pestering her, and the more you pursue her, the worse it will become.
