When chasing girls, some interesting and provocative tricks occasionally can capture a girl's attention more quickly than if you are so nervous that you can't even say a word when asking for a WeChat message. So what are some tricks that can help you quickly catch up with girls?
1. Control of details
Girls are very concerned about details, so how do you become a "detail-controller"? It's very simple, start with the simplest way of capturing attention.
There is a very lethal little detail action. When she wants to drink water, you can unscrew the bottle cap and hand it to her.
Tightening the bottle cap is a detailed action that is not too labor-intensive but full of gentlemanly etiquette. If you think about it more deeply, it may even have a slightly ambiguous atmosphere.
After all, in most cases, the bottle caps that cannot be opened by a girlfriend's coquettishness are in the hands of her boyfriend, and the boyfriend's strength is also fully reflected in the action of twisting the bottle cap.
You see, the action of twisting the bottle cap immediately captures the other person's attention, and at the same time leaves many good labels such as "reliability, details, boyfriend power".
Such actions include but are not limited to taking the initiative to help the girl carry her bag, taking care of the girl to sit down during meals, reminding her in a low voice to tidy her hair, etc.
2. Desire to share
Desire to share A desire to share to a certain extent can enhance mutual feelings, and sharing The moment when desire disappears is often the beginning of lovers breaking up.
"I photographed a cat today, and it looks like you, so cute." Friends, please highlight the key points!
"I photographed a cat today" - me I thought it was interesting and wanted to share it with you. This was the beginning of my desire to share.
"I feel like you" - I am paying attention to you and thinking about you.
"So cute" - I don't know whether the cat is cute or you are cute, let you think about it, but no matter which one is cute, it proves that you are cute in my heart.
The desire to share coupled with mood and words of praise will ensure that the other party will fall quickly. But remember, don’t share every trivial matter.
3. Similarity effect
The "similarity effect" refers to the similarity between people, which will cause Emotions or attitudes that attract each other.
In other words, people generally like those who are similar to themselves. It doesn’t mean you have to look alike, it’s a psychological convergence. Simply put, it resonates.
I know there are still brothers who don’t understand, don’t worry, just give me an example and you’ll understand – the girl you like has any niche hobbies or unique tastes, such as “Does she eat coriander or not?” ".
People who like coriander thinkCoriander is a delicacy in the world. People who don't like coriander will feel poisoned when they smell it.
If you see a girl looking disgusted at picking coriander while dining together, why are you still standing there in a daze? Take the initiative to help her choose!
Here comes the important point, just say something casually at this time "I don't like coriander either" is guaranteed to make girls feel like they have found a soulmate immediately. If you continue this topic, your conversation will open up.
