Men and women are two completely different creatures, with very big differences, but it is precisely because of this that feelings are worth cherishing. Today we will talk about 5 things that girls cannot say, but boys must understand. If you want to improve your emotional intelligence in love, you must master it.
1. Girls’ hints
They are afraid of being too proactive in relationships, and boys don’t know how to cherish them. So they often use hints.
In this way, even if you are rejected, there will be no loss of face.
For example:
Obviously you have nothing to do, but you find an excuse to ask your friends for your WeChat account;
Obviously you can find movie reviews online, I have to ask if you have any recommended movies recently;
I’m obviously not very familiar with it, but I often come to you for help with trivial matters;
I obviously want to eat it. Spicy hot pot, but because you can't eat spicy food, I said that I like Hong Kong-style restaurants very much...
In short, I am trying my best to get close to you. At this time, little brothers, please be smart. OK?
2. Not talking to you means you are angry
It is said that most boys are You can't tell whether the girl is angry or not, let alone what she is angry about.
However, girls’ expressions of anger are basically the same.
Either a volcano erupts and has a direct showdown with you; or it is a strange person and opposes you; or else, it just rolls its eyes at you and disappears.
Neither of the first two is the most terrifying, at least she still talks to you.
If the usually talkative person suddenly becomes quiet and she ignores you even when you talk to her, then the matter is serious.
At this time, don’t chase after her and ask her what’s wrong, and don’t leave her alone and let her be alone. Often, you’ll get cold if you stay quiet.
If you really can’t think of anything you didn’t do well, then tell her a joke, buy her milk tea, take her to eat delicious food...
In short, as long as you make her happy, she will tell you the reason for her anger.
3. I don’t take the initiative because I hope you understand
As long as you are a girl, there is generally no one who doesn’t like beautiful clothes, Shoes, bags, jewelry, cosmetics.
Just because she never asks you for a gift doesn’t mean she doesn’t want it, it’s just that she can’t afford it, and she always feels like it’s a little too much. You know? Anyway, there are no incense gifts from others.
Generally, girls like this don’t dare to blatantly say what they want because they lack pampering.
But the moreThe more insecure girls like this feel inside, what they want most is someone else's firm choice.
Just like the scene in TV dramas where boys secretly buy things just because girls glanced at the window a few times while shopping, I don’t know how many times it has played out in their hearts.
If you really care about her feelings, you will find that they actually love you more than you think, and she will treat you with all her sincerity.
I’m not asking you to buy everything she likes, that’s the truth.
Even if you just quietly inquire about her birthday and prepare a gift in advance, she will be surprised.
4. If I like you, I will naturally take the initiative to find you
You can’t hide your love for someone. Like it too.
I remember a friend once said that if she likes someone, she will do everything to make him feel it, except not to confess directly.
Messages can be replied instantly, chats can be at the bottom of the conversation, you can tell him if you have something on your mind, and date him if you want to.
But if you don’t like it, these things will happen in reverse.
I tend to be indifferent when chatting. If I have something on my mind, I would rather hide and cry than tell you. If I either refuse to agree or give up on a date, I don’t care what you think anyway.
Therefore, many things cannot be explained clearly in words at all, but can be seen through actions.
When it comes to love, boys and girls are the same. They have the softest hearts for the people they like, but they can show the toughest side to the people they don’t like.
5. Never reason with girls
Many people say, never talk to girls It makes sense, but they can't explain why.
They all come from nine-year compulsory education, so why can’t girls be reasonable?
Actually, it’s not that girls can’t be reasonable, but they can make us reasonable. None of them are people I like.
Do you still remember what happened to the female Mercedes-Benz car owner? Including the recent uproar about Du Meizhu tearing Wu Yifan apart with her hands. If a girl really talks sense, I’m afraid it will make boys tremble.
Girls often prefer to speak emotionally to the person they like.
For example, asking you whether you like her regardless of time or occasion; whether you are busy or not, she wants you to chat with her; regardless of whether you have any arrangements, she still wants you to accompany her. Have a meal.
Perhaps she just really doesn’t feel safe, or she’s been in a bad mood recently, or she just simply wants to see you.
They may be shy to speak out their true inner thoughts, but you have to understand,These performances actually speak for themselves.
