Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, but when we scold our girlfriend because of the quarrel, we need to seriously face and solve this problem. Below we will discuss how to deal with scolding your girlfriend due to an argument from different angles.
1. Reflect on our own behavior
We should reflect on our behavior of scolding our girlfriend during a quarrel. We can ask ourselves some questions, such as: "Am I too excited?", "Am I losing my mind?" and so on. By reflecting on our actions, we can better recognize our mistakes and realize that swearing is incorrect behavior.
2. Find the reasons
We need to find the reasons that led to the quarrel and scolding the girlfriend. It may be because the two parties have different views or poor communication, or it may be due to the influence of other external factors. No matter what the reason is, we should try to understand each other and try to find a way to solve the problem.
3. Apologize and express inner guilt
When we realize our mistakes, we should promptly apologize to our girlfriend and express our inner guilt. We can sincerely say: "I'm sorry, I know it was wrong for me to scold you, and I feel deeply guilty." By apologizing and expressing our inner guilt, we can convey to our girlfriend that we are sincerely remorseful.
4. Listen to your girlfriend’s feelings
After apologizing to your girlfriend, we should listen to her feelings. We can ask her: "How did you feel about my swearing behavior at that time?" or "How do you think I should correct my mistakes?" etc. By listening to our girlfriend's feelings, we can better understand her thoughts and provide a reference for correcting our own mistakes.
5. Commit to change and act on it
We need to commit to change and act on it. We can tell our girlfriend: "I will try to control my emotions and stop swearing." And prove our determination through practical actions. For example, we can learn how to communicate better, seek professional help to control our emotions, and more. Only by taking practical actions to change ourselves can our girlfriend believe that we are sincerely sorry and re-establish trust.
When we scold our girlfriend because of a quarrel, we should reflect on our behavior, find the reason, apologize to our girlfriend and express our inner guilt. At the same time, we also need to listen to our girlfriend's feelings and commit to change and take action. Through these efforts, we can better deal with calling our girlfriend names over arguments and build a healthier and stronger foundation in our relationship.
