Perhaps in the eyes of boys, many of my behaviors and actions are innocuous, so I usually don’t pay much attention to them. But in the eyes of girls, some of boys' behaviors will leave a very frivolous impression on her, so girls will be more disgusted with boys. Below, senior Xiaoyu will analyze for you what girls think are boys’ frivolous behaviors. I hope boys will pay more attention to them.
1. Talking frivolously
Boys may be used to getting along with their buddies. They say all kinds of open words casually, do not understand the situation, and speak without measure. If you still can't change this habit when you meet a girl, it's just a dirty joke. Making over-the-top jokes when you are not familiar with a girl, or saying things that go beyond the relationship between ordinary friends... Such behavior is actually considered frivolous in the eyes of girls.
In addition, boys who leave a frivolous impression on girls have another performance in speaking: they talk nonsense casually. He talks nonsense and is full of promises that cannot be fulfilled; he likes to tease others for no reason, whether to attract their attention or disgust; he is frivolous, exaggerated and not pragmatic. After getting along with him, girls feel that this person is unreliable and have no desire to keep in contact with him.
Tuerde: When I arrived at a new company, I was not familiar with everyone at the beginning. One boy came to talk to me during lunch break, and another boy said, "What is Huihui doing?" What about hooking up? When a boy talks like this, I feel disgusting and frivolous.
2. Flirty behavior
Most girls are relatively reserved. Even if they have feelings for boys, they like to develop slowly. But if a boy touches a girl as soon as he comes, tries to hold hands when they first meet, etc. You must know that the intimate behavior of holding hands, especially hugging, should be based on the premise of a romantic relationship. However, any behavior that makes girls feel strange and uncomfortable may leave a frivolous impression on girls.
There may be boys who think that girls just like scumbags, and think that chasing girls sometimes takes them too seriously. No, it’s frivolous to a certain extent, and many girls still fall for it... I can only say that not all girls will be deceived by scumbags, and don’t belittle a girl’s IQ too much. Sometimes, only if you respect the other person can the other person respect you. .
In fact, in the eyes of girls, there are many signs that boys are very frivolous, such as speaking without thinking, saying ambiguous words in front of many people, causing others to misunderstand, and wanting to get physical before the relationship is confirmed. Feet... Sometimes when pursuing a girl, you still have to respect the other person enough. Taking your time is actually good for both of you. You can also see if the girl is the person you really like.
