In your opinion, how long can you love someone? I know that everyone has a different answer to this question, so you can express your own opinions in your heart first. I'll tell you what I think and see if I agree with you.
In fact, many couples break up every day for various reasons, but most of them are based on "we are not suitable" . Obviously, it is very important whether two people are happy and happy together.
In my opinion, most of the unhappiness in love is caused by humans. If two people don't talk well and output wrong value emotions, it can easily affect the relationship atmosphere.
Emotional value is either very interesting and makes the other person happy, or it gives a sense of security and makes the other person feel that you care about them very much. And security is the most important emotional value, regardless of men or women.
When two people are in a relationship, emotions are constantly exchanged, and the relationship is also changed in this exchange. How long can lovers love each other? How close can the relationship be? It depends on how many correct things can be provided. Emotional value!
1. Do a good job in emotional management
The lower the emotional value, the worse the emotional management ability. A love expert can make the other person have pleasant emotions instead of continuing to treat the other person. Ask for emotions.
In other words, we must first have a keen observation of our own emotions and make appropriate adjustments. Continuous excessive highs and lows will be emotionally manipulated, causing repeated emotions, thus affecting the love relationship. (If you don’t know why your emotions always get out of control, you can talk to me)
2. Reject the life-threatening chain call, learn to express yourself
Many girls who are insecure will send a lot of question marks when their boyfriend comes back late or does not reply to messages, and this is often the beginning of a rift in the relationship. .
For example, girls keep asking: Where are you? Why don’t you reply to my message? When will you come back? What are you doing?
In fact, girls are expressing their longing and love for boys. I mean, but boys may mistake it for questioning or making trouble.
In addition to emotion management, expressing emotions is also important. Have you noticed that there are very few question marks in the words of love masters? You might as well try using the following words instead of questions: I miss you so much. It would be great if you came to me earlier; please reply to my message when you have time. oh.
A single sentence can transform your relationship.
3. Be more understanding and tolerant
Quarrels and cold wars are the coolant in relationships. Use less indulgence and indolence. When faced with emotional conflicts, don’t try to Pretend to leave to test whether the other party will really let go. After all, if you use this trick too much, it will lead to epiglottis.Tired. Smart people know how to understand and tolerate each other's imperfections.
Because when we can understand and tolerate the imperfections of the other party, the other party will have enough motivation to spontaneously correct and grow their own imperfections, so that they can perform better and better.
When your performance is not good enough, but the partner can understand and tolerate you so well, then you will feel guilty and feel that you should not do it, so you will spontaneously want to perform better .
I hope you can all gain a long-lasting relationship. Of course, if you have any questions, you can ask me in private. See you next time.
