What kind of woman can’t you want? This is a thought-provoking question. Everyone has different criteria for their ideal partner, but there are always some things in common that we just can’t tolerate. In my opinion, the following types of women are unacceptable.
1. Selfishness
A selfish woman only cares about her own interests and never considers the feelings and needs of others. They always put themselves first, no matter whether others are hurt. Such a woman lacks empathy and responsibility and cannot establish a real intimate relationship with her.
I remember one time, I fell ill and was very weak, but my girlfriend didn't care. She only cared about her own affairs and didn't worry about me or take care of me at all. This made me feel very disappointed and helpless, and I realized that I could not continue to be with a woman like this.
2. Lazy and incompetent
Lazy and incompetent women have no ambition and treat work and life carelessly. They are unwilling to make efforts to pursue a better life, but choose ease and comfort. Such a woman lacks a sense of responsibility and initiative and cannot give you support and encouragement.
I once had a girlfriend who always complained that she was too tired at work and was unwilling to work overtime or learn new skills. She just wants to live an ordinary life without pursuits or dreams. This is very disappointing to me as I was hoping to grow with a driven person.
3. Emotionally unstable
Emotionally unstable women sometimes like to act coquettishly, sometimes they are irritable and irritable. They lack rational thinking when dealing with problems and are easily swayed by emotions. Such a woman will bring you a lot of pressure and trouble, and will not be able to give you a stable and peaceful family environment.
I once dated a woman. Sometimes she was gentle and considerate to me, and sometimes she was angry with me. Her moods were so unpredictable that I couldn't predict how she would react the next moment. This made me feel very exhausted and anxious, and eventually we broke up.
4. Lack of trust
A woman who lacks trust always doubts your motives and actions and cannot give you enough trust and support. They over-interpret your words and deeds, which can easily lead to misunderstandings and suspicions. Such a woman will make you feel depressed and restricted, unable to truly express yourself.
I once had a girlfriend who was always suspicious of my friends and colleagues. She thought they all had bad intentions and were trying to drive a wedge between us. I felt like this distrust was taking my breath away, and eventually we broke up.
5. Lack of independence
Women who lack independence always rely on others to meet their own needs and are unable to think and deal with problems independently. They have no opinions and pursuits of their own and will only blindly follow the opinions of others. Such a woman cannot bring you freshness and excitement and makes your life feel boring.
I once dated a woman who always relied on me to make decisions and arrangements. She has no hobbies of her own and will just follow me to do the things I like. This makes me feel very bored and depressed, and I want to be with someone who has the ability to think for themselves.
Get up, the women you cannot have are those who are selfish, lazy and incompetent, emotionally unstable, lack trust and independence. They cannot bring you real happiness and satisfaction, they will only bring you trouble and pain. When choosing a partner, we should carefully consider their qualities and values ??to ensure we can build a healthy and stable relationship.
