A cold girl’s attitude towards people is generally not very obvious. Even if she has feelings for you, she will not show it. So if we want to pursue such a girl, we need to work hard to understand it. Her idea is to use appropriate methods to solve relative problems.
The following will introduce to you some common techniques for chasing a cold girl:
1. Refuse to kneel and lick her
No matter she is a cold girl or a proactive girl , if you want to catch it, kneeling down and licking it will definitely not work. Therefore, we should not be attentive or show excessive enthusiasm for nothing. What you need to do is, when you go out with her, she is cold, then you are colder than her, but the coldness is only to her, and to other girls around her, you must be able to talk and laugh, let her feel you His attitude towards her is different from other girls.
2. Domineering
Girls like to be led, so they generally prefer mature ones. Let's bring in some domineering boys, and they won't even give those childish and immature puppies a chance to look at them. Women like to conquer powerful boys, because this can make them feel the desire and pleasure of conquest.
Of course, being bossy here does not mean that you are a chauvinist, nor does it mean that you should not consider her thoughts at any time and make your own decisions. For example, when you are dating, you decide everything, not at all. Consider her thoughts. If you do this, she will feel that you are too controlling and will resent you. Therefore, while we are overbearing, we also need to have mature thoughts. For example, she does not go to eat because she wants to be lazy and sleep. You force her to get up and take her to eat. This is the right thing to do.
3. Care in the right amount at the right time
Just care in the right amount at the right time for a cold girl. Too much care will only turn into a burden and make her feel unreasonable. It is wrong to accept this kind of concern from you. If she really has no feelings for you, your concern will become superfluous and an interruption, which will make her feel bored.
Therefore, you don’t need to care too much, you just need to do it just right, such as: reminding you to eat breakfast in the morning, reminding you to take medicine when you are sick, things she accidentally mentioned, although these are just some seemingly inconspicuous things. It's a small thing, but if you can stick with him, she will feel that you may be more reliable than other men, and one day she will be moved by you.
4. Avoid misunderstandings
Because of their natural personality, aloof girls will treat people who understand them People who know them well have a good impression, so if there is a misunderstanding, cold girls generally will not take the initiative to explain, because in their hearts, people who understand will naturally understand and will not misunderstand her, and those who misunderstand them are Those who are not worth dating are the ones who don’t understand them..
If there is a misunderstanding, all you need to do is give trust. Don’t ask her to explain too much before you figure out the answer. Find out the cause and effect before drawing a conclusion.
5. A little romance
As long as she is a girl, no matter how cold she behaves, she still likes romance in her heart. If you can have a little romance once in a while, it will definitely make her day. At the same time, it can also show that you are willing to spend time and energy for her, and that you are willing to pay for her. You consider her, and you also care about and value her.
Of course, you need to consider what kind of romance aloof girls like. They generally don’t like some big scenes and luxurious outdoor scenes, which will make them feel uncomfortable. What they need is something simple, something that can prove that you care and prepare it carefully. It can be a meal or a song for her. It doesn’t have to be too complicated, something simple can make them happy.
