Pursuing the girl you like does not mean you will succeed by being nice to her. Relationships are all about attraction. Only if you are attractive enough will you be recognized by the other party. So how to create attraction when pursuing the girl you like? Woolen cloth? Let me teach you 3 routines below.
1. Timely neglect
Human psychology is very strange and contradictory at the same time, such as Say, the better you treat her, she will become accustomed to it and not feel good about you.
When you "ignore" her from time to time, it will make her feel empty.
When pursuing a girl you like, would you take the initiative to send her messages and say hello three times a day? Then whenever you encounter something interesting, you can’t help but want to share it with her. But what? She always has a tepid attitude towards you.
Occasionally, if I take the initiative to greet you, you will immediately lose your sense of proportion, get carried away with excitement, and start to be attentive.
If she is used to you sending her messages every day, and one day, you make her feel as if you have disappeared from the world, then she will definitely mutter in her heart, and it will flash in her mind from time to time. I had a thought: "Hey. Where was he today? Why is he so weird? Did something happen? Why don't you take the initiative to ask?"
Including sometimes she takes the initiative to reply to you, don't Busy replying as soon as possible will make her worry more about you and care more about you. To be honest, learning to "cold" her at the right time will change your current passive situation and guide her to slowly take the initiative towards you. Habits are scarier than feelings, so you have to hold back.
2. Create a sense of crisis
Of course, this is based on the premise that she has a good impression of you. Down.
When you always put her as the center and surround her every day, it will make her feel that she is everything in your life. Gradually, deep down in her heart, she is no longer afraid of losing you. In other words, she has already made up her mind about you and feels that you can't live without her.
Naturally, I will always passively enjoy your kindness without taking the initiative to give and respond.
So you have to deliberately create some sense of crisis to make her feel that you may be snatched away and you are not too inseparable from her. With the help of the opposite sex around her, she can experience the sour feeling, but she must also control the degree.
While highlighting your own values ??and advantages, you must be more natural and calm.
For example, deliberately tell her in front of her how a certain girl behaves towards you, shows kindness to you, etc. At this time, her performance must be completely opposite to her heart. While she was suddenly wary, she also said some tough words.
Women are very annoying, aA man praises another woman in front of her, but if he can control the degree of it, it will stimulate the woman's desire to compare. Let her worry about gains and losses, start to doubt her own charm, and in the end she is a little afraid of losing you.
3. Create a feeling
As mentioned in the opening article, stick to the rules, follow the rules, and be dull. It will only make the other person feel that you are boring and uninteresting.
As the saying goes: Men are not bad, but women do not love them.
The "bad" referred to here does not mean that the character is bad, or it is more appropriate to use the word "bad" to describe it. When you should be serious, be serious. When you shouldn't be serious, you should be serious. You can learn to create an ambiguous atmosphere, but remember to be bold and careful.
Regarding relationships, most girls are reserved. Even if they like them, they will only respond passively to boys, so they still have to rely on boys to take the initiative and take the initiative.
A woman is a perceptual animal and will always act according to her own feelings. Therefore, the feeling you bring to a woman determines her dependence on you. Learn to create an ambiguous feeling for her, and use some intimate topics to promote the development of the relationship between the two.
In essence, bad boys are the type that most women like.
When an ambiguous atmosphere is really created, a girl will become impulsive and blind in such an atmosphere, and be guided by that atmosphere, which is in line with her inner fantasy of love.
