Girls are reserved creatures. Even if they like you, they will not take the initiative to tell you. If a boy wants to take the initiative when chasing a girl, he must learn to test whether the girl likes you. So what should he do specifically?
1. Does it cater to your standards?
There is a professional term in love science It's called "screening" and is specifically used to determine a girl's interest in you. The method is also very simple. A girl who likes you will naturally find ways to meet your standards in order to win your favor.
The principle of screening is equivalent to when you shake a girl’s hand, and the other person shakes her hand in return. If your fingers are intertwined, it means that the girl likes you.
For example, "I like girls who can cook. My mother says that such girls are usually good at taking care of others." If a girl likes you, she will naturally move closer to your screening criteria, for example, "I am the best at cooking. I learned it from my grandma since I was a child." Even if she doesn't know how to cook, she will find a way to express her willingness to learn, "I also like cooking. When I have a boyfriend, I will learn to cook for him every day."
If a girl doesn’t like you, she won’t cater to your standards. For example, "Why do women cook and not men?" "I hate cooking the most, and I have to wash dishes."
When you put forward your standards and a girl meets your standards, it means that she likes you. On the contrary, it means that she is not interested in you.
2. Do you accept your invitation?
No one would not want to stay with the person they love , she likes you and is naturally willing to date and be alone with you. Invitations are also divided into verbal "vague invitations" and "confirmed invitations." As long as a girl doesn't dislike you, you won't refuse a verbal invitation. For example, drink drinks together when you are free, and play together when you have time. As long as she doesn't hate you, she won't reject you directly.
And "confirm the invitation" is to implement the invitation plan. For example, a new movie will be released this Saturday. Let's go watch the movie together. If a girl is not very interested in you, she will reply to you, let's talk about it. Or find a bunch of reasons to reject you. Although you can't intuitively tell whether something is really wrong with her, she can at least tell that she still doesn't like you enough.
A girl who really likes you will readily agree or start negotiating a specific time with you. Here, I will further test the girl's interest: exchange phone numbers. A phone call is a relatively private piece of information. If the other party is really willing to date you, they will definitely give you a phone call. If the other party is not even willing to give you a phone number, most likely he is just talking to you, or even just a liar, a drunkard, and a fake person.
Through screening, it may be impossible to avoid those "disguised" scumbags. In order to get you to invest in her, they will definitely show their interest in you verbally. But reallyLet them take action and invest in you before they quit.
3. Are you obedient?
Whether you like someone can be disguised, some scumbags In order to attract a man, a woman will pretend that she likes you very much. Her so-called "like" is just verbal, and her true devotion cannot be faked. The most intuitive way to judge whether a girl likes you while chatting on WeChat is to conduct an obedience test.
For example, "When you get up in the morning, remember to say good morning", "Send your cutest photo, let me admire it", "Help me choose a coat".
When a girl likes you and the request is reasonable, the other party will naturally answer you. The kind of girl who pretends to like you can be quickly and accurately identified through this method.
