The recent variety show "Goodbye Lover" has attracted a lot of attention since its broadcast.
As the first divorce-themed variety show in China, it truly shows the life, status and relationship of divorced couples.
The program invited three couples who have been divorced or are about to divorce, and spent 18 days traveling to get along, and finally make a new decision to stay together or separate.
In fact, the most impressive couple is Zhang He and Guo Keyu, who have been married for ten years and divorced for one year.
In the program, the two people mentioned many times that there was no love between them, and they only came together when they reached the age of marriage.
Many people ask: Can a marriage without love last?
Everyone may have their own answer to this question.
1. You must get married when you reach a certain age
In the show, Zhang He and Guo Keyu All are actors.
The two people got connected because of the drama, and they chose to get married after only one month of knowing each other.
When two people entered into marriage with infinite longing, they discovered that without the novelty, a marriage that only consisted of daily necessities and daily necessities had turned out to be a torment.
The two people have completely different schedules, hobbies, and living habits, and they are not on the same channel at all.
No one is willing to enter each other's world, nor are they willing to compromise for the other half. They would rather be alone than take a step closer.
Later, the two gradually drifted apart, and finally spent 10 years paying for their original choices, and the two divorced. .
At the beginning, both of them said that there was no love between them and they only got married because they were suitable. In the end, they chose to separate because of loneliness.
Now when you reach a certain age, there seems to be a social clock reminding you that you should get married.
Therefore, some people choose to compromise because of age, worldliness and external voices, and enter into marriage without love.
People who have not compromised still have to face the nagging of people around them, "Just make do with it, it's almost enough. It doesn't matter whether it's love or not."
Love is important in marriage. ?
There is a topic on Zhihu: What is it like to marry someone you don’t love?
One answer attracted the likes of countless netizens, “Suddenly I feel that my life has been advanced. It’s over.”
We always regret our original choices after we make them.
Unfortunately, life is a one-way street.
2. Don’t overestimate whether you are rightTolerance of a Married Life with Love
When Zhang He and Guo Keyu got married, there was no love just because of their age.
In fact, in reality, many people are experiencing the same thing. Because of age and external voices, I rush into marriage.
When you get into marriage and really start to face each other, you realize that this is not the person you want.
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Just like Shen Yipei said in the show: "Don't overestimate your tolerance for a marriage life without love."
In fact, no matter A marriage with or without love requires two people to respect each other and manage it carefully.
There is no happy relationship that is not the result of the efforts of two people.
I hope that we can all marry love and can confidently say at any time: "I don't regret marrying him."
