In the world of love, chasing girls is not an easy thing. Many boys often fall into some misunderstandings in the process of pursuing girls, causing their efforts to be in vain. This article will introduce in detail the correct and incorrect order of pursuing girls, and help everyone better master the skills of pursuing girls.
1. The correct order of chasing girls
The acquaintance stage
Display stage
Attraction stage
Ambiguous flirting stage
Dating stage
You need to expand your social circle and get to know more girls. Don't stay at home all day, otherwise your social circle will become very narrow. You can get to know more people by participating in interest groups, social activities, etc., and increase your chances of meeting the girl you like.
When you first meet a girl, don’t rush to confess, but show off your strengths. Humor, sunshine, and positivity can all attract girls' attention. At the same time, pay attention to the way you present it to avoid giving the impression of showing off.
Chasing girls does not rely solely on pleasing and kneeling, but on attracting them. You can show off your talents, interests and hobbies to let girls see your uniqueness. Personal charm is also very important, including emotional intelligence, outlook on life, speech and behavior, etc.
When your relationship gradually heats up, you can engage in ambiguity and flirting appropriately. But pay attention to the scale and don't put pressure on girls. Through appropriate ambiguity, each other's feelings can be enhanced and lay the foundation for subsequent interactions.
When your relationship reaches a certain level, you can formally establish a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. During this process, you must respect the girls' feelings and don't act too hastily. You should also continue to work hard to maintain each other's feelings during the relationship.
2. Wrong order of chasing girls
Kneel down and lick to please
Blind confession
Giving without a bottom line
Ignore personal growth
Many boys think that being nice to girls can win their hearts, so they keep Please, kneel and lick. However, such behavior will only reduce your value and make girls think you lack confidence and charm.
Some boys rush to confess their feelings to girls as soon as they meet them. This behavior will put a lot of pressure on girls. Confessing your love when you are not familiar with each other can easily lead to a tense relationship.change, or even lose opportunities.
In the process of pursuing girls, some boys will give without a bottom line, giving up their own principles and bottom lines in order to cater to girls. Not only will such behavior not win the girl's favor, but it will reduce your value in her heart.
In the process of pursuing girls, some boys will ignore their own growth. They think that they can succeed as long as they are nice to girls, but they forget to improve their inner qualities and attractiveness. Only by constantly improving yourself can you attract more outstanding girls.
The correct order for chasing girls is acquaintance, showing, attraction, ambiguity, flirting and communication. We should avoid wrong practices such as kneeling down to please, blind confession, giving without bottom line, and ignoring personal growth. Only by mastering the correct pursuit skills can you succeed in love.
