The only way to communicate with a girl you like is through online chatting. How should a girl in this situation pursue her more successfully?
1. Cultivate emotional foundation
The biggest obstacle to long-distance communication is the invisible and intangible strangeness. Therefore, if you want to pursue a girl from a different place, Then you have to learn to start with the most ordinary friends. Don't be ambiguous when you come up. If you take too big a step, it is easy for the other party to regard you as an LSP.
What do ordinary friends usually talk about? Most of them are gossip.
You can look through the other person’s updates and look for topics they like. For example, the other person often reposts Kris Wu’s songs. You can talk to the other person about his recent movements and shorten the psychological distance between the two parties.
Keep chatting with the other person for a month. After the emotional foundation is established, will the subsequent warming of the relationship be a big deal?
2. Be the most special "friend"
No matter how good the friends around you are, it doesn't mean that you can talk about all topics. Only outsiders with little influence can make people speak freely. Speaking of which, you should know what to do!
When she feels uncomfortable, your opportunity will come. When she talks to you about her worries, in addition to giving her your suggestions, You can also take her out of her bad mood by diverting her attention.
As soon as you tease and interrupt her, her train of thought will follow you astray. It’s definitely not a big deal!
For example, if she says, “Work is too boring and the boss is a jerk,” then Just say: "Don't think about the unreasonable things. I saw a joke today that amused me to death. I'll tell it to you."
As you know more and more secrets, she will become more and more dependent on you!
3. Confession at the right time to create fate
No matter how good the online chat is, time will pass. The other party will inevitably feel that this relationship is invisible and intangible, and has no future! But what if you can meet? And you can also work and live in the same place in the future? Will the other party's biggest worries be solved immediately? ?
When chatting, you might as well find out where the other person plans to work and live in the future, and then quietly express that you have the same plan, making the other person feel that everything is destined.
You already have a relationship foundation, and she likes you very much after you get in touch with her. She also feels that you are the only one around you who understands her, and she can only tell you what is on her mind. Wouldn’t it be natural to express your love at this time?
Some people say that the biggest obstacle to long-distance relationships is looking at the same sky.But it is a different scenery. It is raining in your city, but I dare not ask you if you brought an umbrella.
In fact, the biggest challenge in long-distance relationships is not just the distance, but the word "different", which is distrust and lack of common expectations.
If you truly love each other, one day the good night on the phone will turn into a kiss, the comfort in the video will turn into a hug, and the sad future will be repaid with sweetness.
