Some people will develop one-night stands in order to pursue excitement. Although a one-night stand is different from cheating, it does not involve as much emotional entanglement as cheating. But the two still have one thing in common, that is, they are both irresponsible towards feelings. So what do people who have one-night stands think besides pursuing excitement?
In fact, socializing with strangers In the current environment, it is more through a variety of social software.
For example, a certain Mo, a certain Tan, a certain S, a certain Ji, etc.
Because compared with traditional social networking, its social networking efficiency is higher and the social cost is lower.
We can start a conversation that originally required face-to-face conversations without leaving home.
Even, the two sides have a more straightforward purpose, eliminating the need for cumbersome communication, and can turn on the pile driver mode as long as their eyes are ok.
Meet, turn off the lights, drive piles, and leave.
These channels and this model are nothing new. They have long been popularized and mechanized production.
What are the masters like?
They make the best use of everything, and everything can become a bridge for them to make new friends.
For example, when I learned that someone had sent pre-edited contact information to nearby girls through Airdrop (Bluetooth) on their mobile phones, I was completely confused and dumbfounded.
Therefore, social interaction can occur wherever there are people.
Although modern civilization has developed to such a high level, human nature remains the same from beginning to end.
From an evolutionary psychology perspective, men and women have different motivations for HOOK UP (generally referred to as one-night stand).
Most women want to transition their relationship to FWB with the help of a round of applause for love.
Note: FWB is the abbreviation of Friends with benefits, that is, friends with benefits. Simply put, they are friends.
They hope that they can develop a long-term relationship through sex.
Men are different. Most men can HOOK UP, or they can progress from HOOK UP to FWB, but only to FWB.
Why?
Because most men know that anyone who can play with you like this can also do the same. Play this way with other people.
Excuse me, who wants to have a green grassland above their head?
Of course, it is not ruled out that both parties are justJust want to have fun.
Although we do not support it, we respect every adult’s choice.
It’s fun to play, but those who are already in a relationship but have an open relationship under the guise of advanced ideas are really scumbag.
Note: An open relationship is a non-monosexual intimate relationship. In layman's terms, it allows both parties to have sexual relations with others under the premise of being in a romantic relationship.
This... two people’s love, multiple people’s carnival?!
There may be many people with more open minds who think this is normal, but, I’m sorry, we respect you I really don’t accept or support your choice.
If this is the case, do you still need to get married? If you get married, how do you prove that you are the biological father of your child?
So, whether you are in love or married, both parties Have an open relationship.
First, treat this relationship well.
The second is to make the exclusivity of marriage and love reasonable and avoid the phenomenon of children from the grassland or other families in the family.
Finally, relationships must be serious, attentive, and dedicated.
After all, people are not machines and need emotional connections. Ultimately, a serious and beautiful relationship is the destination that most people yearn for.
Desire can be released appropriately, but excess will inevitably hurt others and yourself.