How should you comfort your girlfriend after a fight? These words must be said!
1. Express your apology
When you have an argument with your girlfriend, you must first express your apology. No matter whose fault it is, take the initiative to take responsibility and sincerely apologize to her. Tell her that you deeply regret your words and actions and understand that your mistakes have hurt her.
"Dear, I'm really sorry. I know my words hurt you, and I didn't take your feelings into consideration. I deeply regret my impulsive and irrational behavior."
2. Show understanding
After apologizing, express understanding of her feelings. Tell her that you understand her emotions and pain and that you are willing to listen to her.
"I can understand your mood at the moment, and my words really hurt you. I know you may feel sad and angry now, but please believe me, I am really willing to listen to your voice."
3. Validate her feelings
After listening to her, validate her feelings. Tell her that you understand her emotions are valid and that you respect her feelings.
"I know you feel aggrieved and angry now, which is completely understandable. I will respect your feelings and work hard to correct my mistakes."
4. Express love
After expressing your apology and understanding, express your love to your girlfriend. Tell her how much you value her and that you are willing to work on their relationship.
"My dear, I love you very much. You are everything to me, and I don't want us to hurt each other because of a temporary quarrel. I am willing to make every effort for our relationship."
5. Commit to change
After expressing love, make a commitment to change your words and actions. Tell your girlfriend that you will learn from this argument and handle issues more carefully in the future.
"Dear, I promise that I will handle problems more carefully in the future and no longer be impulsive and irrational. I will work hard to change myself and make our relationship better for the sake of it."
It is not easy to coax your girlfriend after a fight, but as long as you sincerely express your apology, understand her feelings, and promise to change, I believe your relationship will be able to get back on a good track.
