In the process of dating a girl, I believe that no one wants to be deceived by the other party. After all, in most cases, the reasons why they deceive you are very scary. So how to judge whether a girl is cheating on you?
1. Girls who have not yet confirmed the relationship< /h2>
A girl who treats you as a backup will usually tell you that she is single, has no boyfriend, is empty, lonely and cold, but will not let you get close to her easily to help warm her up.
This kind of girl will definitely not just keep a little fish like you. There must be several bad guys waiting to contract fish ponds for her.
When some friends hear this, they may look in the mirror, rummage through their wallets, and then say, “What do those pretty girls have to do with me?”
Don’t think of me as a spare tire. Many girls have to be pretty. In real life, there are many ordinary girls who are not good-looking but have relatively high emotional intelligence. They are the big backups.
So no matter who you are chasing, don’t let your guard down.
The key for us to see through their lies is to find out her other backup partners or prospective boyfriends.
How to find it?
QQ Zone, Weibo, Douban Comments, any social software you can think of , girls will naturally be defensive.
The clues are not impossible to find, but they are very troublesome. You need to have the patience to peel off the cocoons to find her ambiguous partner from the comments.
Here is a simple way to teach you: look at her updates.
If more than 70% of this girl’s circle of friends are all about beauty selfies, then even if she doesn’t have a spare tire for the time being, she must be thinking about cultivating one.
Because women frequently show off their looks and figures, they are actually providing sexual attraction to attract boys.
At this time, you must not simply think that it is for you to see.
It takes time for girls to retouch selfies. Are they posting every day just to hook up with a guy? Are you too handsome to count?
Finally, I will give you a practical tip. , choose a few Saturday and Sunday nights, around 9:30, to check the girls’ WeChat steps.
If it’s less than 1,000 steps, then great, call the girl now, immediately, immediately.
If she doesn’t answer, or there are other circumstances, then you have to think about it carefully.
A step count of less than 1,000 means no outdoor activities, and the daily routine of contemporary young people does not allow her to go to bed before 12 o'clock.
So it is not convenient to answer calls from boys at this time, you ask me why? I will give you a blind guess, is there someone on the bed?
2. Girlfriends who have confirmed relationships
Let’s talk about girlfriends who have confirmed relationships and are currently dating. This kind of relationship with you is very close. A girl can only judge whether she has fallen in love with you through abnormal behavioral logic.
The first is the inexplicable loss of contact.
Comparing the normal chats between you and her before, the girl's behavior is not clear. The response time is delayed by 1-3 hours, or 1-2 days.
It’s not a lot, but it’s definitely worth being vigilant about. It’s accompanied by long and short responses.
Then there is a sudden increase in social activities.
The girl comes back and tells you that she went out with a friend or a bestie, without giving any details. Name.
Then, she is most likely lying.
If you ask her the same question three times and she gives you the same reply three times in a row, then she is definitely lying. Lying.
And suddenly showing kindness to you.
I used to be normal to you, but suddenly I showed kindness to you, let’s play together and do what you like.
Her behavior becomes unstable, which is actually a kind of compensation mentality. She has done something wrong to you and wants to make up for it elsewhere. These may be signs that she is cheating on you.
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