Many boys have a misconception that girls don’t like them because they are not handsome and have no money. It is normal for boys to have this kind of thinking, but it is incorrect. In fact, it is a sign of lack of confidence. When a girl likes someone, it’s not because she wants him or her. So what are the taboos when chasing girls?
1. Confess your love when you see someone you like!</ p>
It’s normal for boys to be impulsive when they see good-looking girls. Many boys can't help themselves when they see a girl they like. They often add friends to confess their love just as they get the contact information. Long-winded confessions cannot impress girls at all. Who do you think you are? As soon as a girl meets you, you can't wait to ask her to be your girlfriend. This kind of behavior is very retarded and wrong. It will not impress her at all, unless she is blindly attracted to you, or you are really rich and handsome! Many boys once asked their brothers to help set them up when they were students. , surround you and start cheering you, or place a candle on the ground with a heart, shout her name loudly, and the rest of you will start shouting "Together"! "Together"! If you are a girl, what do you think? You must know this kind of coercion. Sexual confession will definitely have no good results!
Everyone needs to complete the ceremony. There are only two results for confession, either they will be together, or they will not even be friends. If you can't bear the consequences of failure, don't confess easily. Only when you are confident enough, create some romance appropriately and move her before confessing, the success rate will be greatly increased.
2. Hold girls in your arms without any bottom line.
This kind of behavior is flattery at best, but in fact it is "kneeling and licking"! You know, boys who kneel and lick are the least valuable. This kind of boy is particularly unreserved when he meets a girl he likes. He treats the girl as his own and often does things that have no bottom line, making people look down on him.
Are you hungry? I will buy you something to eat! Are you thirsty? I will buy you something to drink! Every little thing for a girl is like the sky falling. I want to do everything for girls, but do girls really need it? Most people who do this can only become spare tires because you are too cheap. Maybe a girl enjoys your pursuit, but you won't win her heart. Even if you save money and save money to buy her things, the money will always be spent. When you run out of money, she will still look at you? If a girl stops paying attention to you, will you think that girls are all money worshippers? Yes! But think about it, didn't you take the initiative to send her out? So when you chase a girl, you always think about her. Maybe the other party really doesn't lack your spare tire.
3. Moral kidnapping.
What is moral kidnapping? Moral kidnapping means that if you feel that you have given a lot, she should give you the same amount in return. If the girl is still unmoved, then I'm sorry for you. At this time, many boys will say: "Why are you so cold-blooded! I think about you all the time and give you my heart and soul! Why can't you respond to my love?"That's right! Why don't you like me! I've done so much for you, why are you not moved?"
Boys must understand one thing, girls like someone not because they want to get something. Chasing girls You have to rely on yourself to impress her sincerely. Giving gifts is only a auxiliary means, not a necessary means. Of course, you can create some small romances for her from time to time and use some tricks to increase her favorability, but there is no way to change yourself and force her to like something. Instead of cultivating her common hobbies, it will be difficult for girls to accept you. Only by finding the right method and cultivating common topics with her will you have many topics to talk about together!
If two people really want to be together, nothing can stop them, except your lack of confidence. If you want to chase a girl, you must first realize that she is an independent individual. She has the right to like or dislike you. She is very important. Good but not yours. Only by knowing yourself correctly can you have a chance to catch the person you like.
