We all know that people with social phobia will have many obstacles in social interaction, but some people may be introverted, not good at talking, and do not like to interact with strangers. These are not necessarily symptoms of social phobia. What are the symptoms of social phobia? If the girl you like has these symptoms, how do you pursue a girl with social phobia?
1. Manifestations of social phobia
1. Fear of being noticed
People with social phobia like to be silent and transparent. If someone pays attention to them, they will feel uncomfortable and even start to escape. If they encounter a situation where they have to stand up, they will appear very embarrassed.
2. It is unnatural to get along with the opposite sex
Although I also long for the attention of the opposite sex in my heart, if the opposite sex really comes into contact with me, it will be extremely unnatural and my mind will go blank. , can’t even speak.
3. Stay alone
Others are in groups, but people with social phobia like to be alone and cannot integrate into the group, even if there are people If you extend an olive branch, you will subconsciously refuse to integrate.
4. People-pleasing personality
Always aggrieved by themselves and meet other people's requirements. They feel that it is natural to help others. They blame themselves when they cannot help, but never dare to trouble others. Afraid of conflict with others, for the sake of a harmonious situation, they would rather swallow their anger and hide their needs rather than express them.
2. How to pursue a girl with social phobia
1. Want to pursue a girl with social phobia For a girl, first of all, you need to understand what causes her social phobia, and secondly, help her establish a sense of security. Let him understand again that you and her do not have any safety risks. On the contrary, you may help her when he is in danger and make her dependent on you. Of course, this process may be a bit long and you need to wait silently. Only if you can afford to wait can you eventually catch her.
2. To suit her liking, you need to know from the side what kind of movies she likes to watch and what games she likes to play. What kind of sports do you like? What kind of books do you like to read? If you don’t understand much, you can supplement this knowledge and you will have a common language when chatting with her, which will increase her trust in you. You must act like a man in front of her and give her a certain level of security. Because she has social phobia and is unwilling to communicate with others, you can let her feel the sense of security and trust you bring to her, so that she will be closer to you.
3. Keep in touch with the girl online and offline, take the initiative to chat with her, ask her to go play together (imagine it as a date), and create a little ambiguity in the process, such as holding her hand when getting in and out of the car. , put your hand on her shoulder to let her know that you like her. Sometimes girls are a little slow to react and can’t feel it.You like it, so you have to show it more. Girls with social anxiety should be quite introverted. Don't be too sudden or too direct when showing your love. She may not be able to accept it. Take your time. Over time, if she likes you too, I believe you will be together. .
The most important thing when pursuing a girl with social phobia is that you don’t make her feel pressured to contact you. When she is willing to take the initiative to chat with you, you will have a chance.
