I met a girl I like through a blind date. After the blind date, we also added each other on WeChat. The subsequent chat was also good. I felt that we were ready to go on a date. However, no matter how I invited her, she would not come out to meet. What is this? situation, what should we do?
The reasons why blind date partners only chat but do not meet each other are generally the following two reasons:
1. Use you as a spare tire
Some boys are typical people-pleasers. , as soon as he meets the girl he likes, he wants to please her, and then tries to establish a romantic relationship with her through pleasing her. As everyone knows, this will only make you become a bitch. You must know that your blind date only needs to spend time chatting with you on WeChat, and there is no need to spend other extra energy, and you let her experience it on you. Without the feeling of being in love, she only treats you as an emotional trash can and spare tire.
2. Going on a blind date with you is just to deal with family members
In today's society The current situation is that there are more men than women. Single men are a common phenomenon in real life, and many boys have love paranoia. What you call a passionate fight is actually just a polite response from girls. It is normal for girls not to come out to date you.
Moreover, a pretty girl will have countless suitors around her. Maybe she already has a boyfriend outside, but because of the If you don’t agree, she can only go on a blind date, and chatting with you on WeChat is just to deal with family members. If this is the reason, it is normal to only chat and not meet.
So how should we deal with girls on blind dates who only chat but don’t meet?
1. Communicate sincerely with girls on blind dates
It is said that women have deep minds, and women’s thoughts are much more complicated than men’s. And people can never guess. If you keep guessing about a girl's thoughts, you will never be able to date a girl.
So we might as well put down our dignity and communicate with the girl sincerely, and ask the girl why she doesn’t go out with you to meet and date. Is it because she is dating you just to cope with the family, or because she has no feelings for you at all? , just talk it all out and you will be able to untie the knot in your heart. If you two are really not suitable for each other, thenJust keep looking for your next relationship without delay.
2. Show attitude
Because there are more men than women, many boys If you have no attitude when pursuing a girl, you will only flatter and please the girl blindly. If you blindly please the girl, you will have no sense of boundaries in social interactions. If a girl cannot experience the feeling of love with you, she will treat you as a backup and chat with her first, etc. Find her Prince Charming and she'll dump you.
If your blind date puts you in the backup category, then she is playing with or deceiving your feelings, and it will be a waste of time and energy for you to continue spending time with her.
Therefore, we must dare to express our attitudes to women. Men who dare to express their attitudes are confident and assertive. Only when women are with him can they feel a sense of security. You can say to girls like this: "If you have always been unwilling Meet me, then I don’t need to waste my time on you.”
