Love is a very beautiful thing, because in the process of falling in love, you will feel very happy, but falling in love will go through many periods, and it is impossible to maintain a state of passionate love all the time. After being together for a long time, the relationship will become very dull. After the relationship fades, find ways to keep it fresh. So, what’s the secret to keeping love fresh? How long can love stay fresh?
Secrets to keep love fresh
Article 1: Cultivate a sense of ritual??
Life needs a sense of ritual. To put it bluntly, the sense of ritual is to make you feel that you are living, not surviving.
The sense of ceremony does not need to be so gorgeous, it needs to be attentive. Removing the plastic wrapping of a new book is also a ritual. The more trivial things are, the more they test a person's carefulness; the more careful a person is, the more they understand life.
The sense of ritual allows us to become the masters of life instead of being squeezed out by life. The sense of ritual is not the purpose, but the process. The sense of ritual is not about buying a bouquet of flowers and having a meal, but why you bought this bouquet of flowers and why you wanted to have this meal with him).
The second is to create the romance of life
Marriage requires love, even if it only accounts for a small part. Most men only have two people before and after marriage. Before marriage, you take care of everything; after marriage, you take it for granted.
3. In-depth communication and growth??
Most people’s marriages are speechless.
The establishment of a relationship starts with communication. If there is nothing to say, the relationship will sour or end.
When Ma Yixue was asked "what is the best marriage", she once said that the most important thing in marriage is mobility, and the two of them had something to say. Unhappy marriages are not due to lack of love, but due to lack of communication between intimates.
Why are couples in marriage becoming more and more speechless?
Lack of awareness, lack of understanding of the other person’s words, deeds, feelings, and needs, and neglect of understanding the other person’s partner’s emotions, thus becoming more and more “lazy to communicate.” Generally speaking, couples who break up delay or withdraw from giving.
How long can the freshness of love last?
The freshness can be maintained for about half a year.
The freshness of love is initially determined by the passion brought about by the hormones secreted in the human body.
Usually a new relationship goes through two stages, which can last about half a year.
If the passion brought by the novelty cannot be transformed into love after half a year, then the novelty will completely disappear.
If the passion brought by the novelty can be transformed into love after half a year, the novelty will reappear.
How to keep your relationship fresh
1. Have common interests, learn to appreciate each other
Actively exploring your common interests will strengthen your relationship and keep your love fresh. Find a time that works for you to do something you both enjoy. Only when they are in harmony with each other can love last forever. You have to remember that even if you have been together for a long time, you still have to remember to appreciate each other and appreciate each other. Only in this way can your love be happier and fresher.
2. Don’t rely too much on the other person and keep your own sense of mystery
Although you should be honest with each other in the face of love, maintaining a sense of mystery does not mean deliberately hiding the other person. Women should always maintain a sense of mystery, especially in front of their lovers. Distance creates beauty, stay independent, don't rely too much on each other, and let the sweet love between each other feel fresh.
3. In addition to love, you must also have your own social circle
Everyone should have his own life. Life should not only include love, but also friendship, family ties, etc. Life with only love is incomplete. For lovers, it is not a good thing for two people to stick together every day. In addition to love, they also have their own social circles and their own lives. Only in this way can they keep each other fresh.
