Being handsome can indeed be of great help in chasing girls, but being handsome is by no means the key factor in whether you can catch a girl, so stop blaming the reason for being single on your appearance. If you are not handsome, you should blame it. How to chase girls?
1. Learn to be humorous
How to become a humorous person What about people? In fact, a sense of humor can be cultivated. Here are a few methods:
(1) Appropriate teasing
In most people’s minds, they often think that teasing others is mean. In fact, it’s because I didn’t use the right method:
Female: “How is it? I’m very punctual for this meeting, right?”
Male: “No, I’m one hour late every time. This time it’s actually half an hour earlier than usual, which is worth celebrating.”
Isn’t it more popular than just saying “Why are you late again?”
Compared with teasing others, teasing oneself is often easier to make people laugh, and it can also leave a deep impression on others. For example:
"I am just fat for fun, and after enough fun I will lose weight."
"Don't compliment me on my handsomeness behind my back, the whole world knows it. "Stop talking about it."
(2) Echo from another angle
Normally, when echoing others, you will say "You are right", "You are awesome", "Wow, You are so awesome."
I don’t know if you are tired of saying it, but I am tired of hearing it anyway.
What if you put it in another perspective?
Female: "Yesterday I found out that my roommate was secretly using my cosmetics. I was so angry. Then I couldn't help but say a few words to her. Now, I feel a little regretful."
Male: "I'll go, how could you do this? I'm so disappointed that you just said a few words? If it were me, I would have scolded her so much and kicked her out. Out."
In this case, complaining can better resolve the regret in the girl's heart than comforting her, making her feel that she has done nothing wrong and she will feel relieved.
And the change of tone before and after will make girls think that you are so funny.
(3) Pretend to be “irregular”
Why do people like scumbag men? Because they are not rigid and rigid, they are good at using words that seem improper but harmless. Phrases to make girls happy.
Of course, I am not encouraging our boys to learn to be scumbags, but there are some things that we can use. After all, useful tricks cannot be wasted by scumbags.
For example, sometimes it’s fun to pretend to be immoral. Even if he is found out, he can still make girls feel that, you see, this guy is actually quite serious at heart!
Girl: "Do you often make girls happy like this??”
Male: “So, are you happy?”
Female: “What do you think you are best at?”
Male: “I am good at it” Don't speak. "(Be humorous)
Female: "Really, I think you are quite good at talking. ”
Male: “Isn’t this because I’m with you?” "(To deepen the impression that "you are good at talking" in the other party's mind)
Girls, they all like to hear nice things. As long as we speak to the point, be more sincere, and be more funny, we can give She left a deep impression
2. Have your own specialties and hobbies
Speaking of hobbies, Many boys who have no hobbies may not know what they like. Here is a way to find hobbies and ask yourself a question:
If you are alone now, without a mobile phone, no Internet, no TV series and no friends, what can you do to not feel lonely and enjoy it?
If you have the answer, then this is your love!
If you still have it now If you don’t have such a passion, you can start by expanding your spare time activities, such as playing ball with friends on weekends, painting, singing, dancing, fitness, traveling, anything, as long as it is something you really enjoy.
< p style="text-align: center;">3. Being nice to girls
Being nice to girls is the ultimate weapon for unattractive boys to pursue girls. So what? Is it good for a girl? Buy her a bag? Take her to a big meal? Yes, it all counts. But that is the way of wealthy people, we can start from the details. , prove it with actions.
I have a girl friend who is very beautiful and had many suitors when she was in school, but the husband she finally chose was not handsome.
Question. Why did she choose him? She said: "I have a bad temper and he always gives in to me. When we quarrel, he always apologizes first to comfort me. In fact, he was not such a gentle person originally, but since we met now, he has always been very kind to me. I think such sincerity is more important than a good-looking face. ”
There is another girl whose boyfriend is a programmer. He is not handsome, and he is not romantic, but he still does not detract from his thoughtfulness.
Once, The girl forgot about the boy's birthday and went shopping with us. When we got home in the evening, her boyfriend had already prepared a meal and was waiting for her. Not only did he not blame her, he also bought her her favorite snacks.
< p> And I heard from the girl that every time she comes back from a business trip, the boy will pick her up at the station in person.In fact, many couples are ordinary people. The boy may not be handsome and may not have money. Even in everyone’s eyesStraight men, but this does not affect their gentle and considerate treatment of their significant other.
So, if all girls only like handsome boys, then no one will want boys who are not handsome? Obviously, this is not the reality.
Those girls who did not choose a handsome boy in the end must be because the boy impressed her at some point.
For example, are you a particularly good cook? Or are you very good at considering problems from the other person’s perspective and never quarrel with others? Or, are you a particularly gentleman and treat everyone with kindness? Very polite?
These may be the reasons why a girl recognizes you. You see, girls are so simple sometimes!
Of course, the stories of my two friends are based on the premise that they are already together. Here is a reminder to single boys, if you haven’t been with a girl yet When establishing a relationship, don't be too hasty to "care blindly", as this can easily backfire.