When chasing girls, it is basically boys who take the initiative to chat with girls. This is normal. Girls are generally very reserved and not proactive. But if after falling in love, my girlfriend still never takes the initiative to contact me, this is a bit abnormal. Let’s talk specifically about why my girlfriend never takes the initiative to contact me? And how should I get my girlfriend to take the initiative?
1. The reason why my girlfriend never contacts me
1. As a girl, in In the process of falling in love, most people like to be bored with their boyfriends, but they are worried that their boyfriends will be bored with them, so they restrain themselves and do not take the initiative to contact their boyfriends.
2. During the relationship between male and female friends, most girls follow the hard-to-get approach. They do not reply or rarely reply to each other's messages to whet the other's appetite and make the other person think about themselves.
3. In the process of love, most girls hope that boys will take the initiative, be more understanding of girls, and be gentle and considerate. Even if girls don’t say it, as long as boys do this, girls will still be very happy in their hearts.
4. Take me as an example. When my boyfriend sends me a message saying I miss you, I like you, etc., I am often very happy, but I don’t know how to reply to express my love for him. .
5. Between a boyfriend and a girlfriend, you can only tell whether the other party really likes you when you meet. If my girlfriend never takes the initiative to contact me, and both parties are still lukewarm or lukewarm face to face, then You really need to consider whether your girlfriend really likes you.
6. Of course, it is possible that a girl has this personality. She likes to be more passive and likes her boyfriend to take the initiative to contact her and show that her boyfriend loves her.
2. What should I do if my girlfriend never takes the initiative to contact me
1. Ask her to talk< /p>
Emotions should be two-way, whether it is giving or chatting, if one person always takes the initiative, then you don’t want to fall in love, it will be a one-man show. As a boyfriend, you have discovered that there are problems in your relationship. No matter what reason your girlfriend never takes the initiative to contact you, you can mention it to her directly and tell her that it is very tiring for you to take the initiative alone and that you cannot feel her support. You care. If she really loves you, she will change. If she really doesn't love you so she doesn't take the initiative to contact you, and she's not willing to make changes for this, then there may be no need to maintain your relationship.
2. Give your girlfriend a sense of security
If your girlfriend only enjoys your initiative and feels that her price will drop if she takes the initiative to contact you, then you have not given her enough security. feel. She feels that after she takes the initiative to contact you, you will slowly neglect her and you will slowly change your heart... As long as you let her believe that you feel for her, she will open up to you.I'm open to contacting you.
No matter how much you love your girlfriend, if you always rely on you to maintain the relationship unilaterally, you will feel tired, and it will also make you develop bad habits for your girlfriend, and you will never be able to maintain the relationship. Be willing to make changes. When the day comes that you can't hold on any longer, sooner or later you will end up breaking up.
