Before a boy falls in love, he must establish a correct outlook on love in order to avoid becoming a useless licking dog in the relationship. So what is a boy's correct outlook on love?
1. Falling in love will not delay work and life, only wrong love will
Love is life. A better relationship will only add color to life.
If you don’t believe it, take a look. After those sloppy boys fell in love, with the supervision and correction of their girlfriends, they knew how to wash their hair, change their socks, improve their dressing standards, and have someone to accompany them when they were sick. How could the quality not be improved?
As for work, a good love relationship is the motivation and backing for everyone’s struggle. In Western concepts, family harmony has always been one of the criteria for measuring a person's achievement.
In fact, Chinese people also value family, but traditional Chinese families place more emphasis on personal attachment and obedience, which needs improvement.
In this case, why do so many people think that falling in love delays work and reduces the quality of life?
The reason is very simple. The wrong way of falling in love will inevitably bring about the wrong results.
Blindly giving, blindly obeying, or being completely addicted to love and having no time to care about others. I have pointed out the disadvantages of such wrong ways of love many times before. The result will inevitably be bad love and other things. Made a mess.
Love is a double test of a person’s comprehensive strength and emotional intelligence. Those who truly master the method can enjoy the benefits of love.
2. Love is not a god
As I said, love is a part of normal life. So it is very important, but it does not mean that it cannot be done without love.
When young and frivolous, everyone has been crazy about love. At that time, love was really bigger than heaven in people's hearts. But after several years of ups and downs, those who should be bearish should still be bearish.
I love her very much, but that doesn’t mean I won’t marry her. I want to be with him, but that doesn’t mean I have to give up everything for him.
You fall in love to improve the quality of your life, not to lower it.
3. If you can afford it, you must be able to put it down
If I can afford it, I dare to love it. I'm not afraid of other people's cold looks. I want to be with you. I believe I have the qualifications and abilities;
I dare not love you if I can let go. I long for love, but I don't accept unprincipled compromises.
So, if we are really not suitable, I will not blindly lie to myself. Why owe anything? I dare to break my heart if I dare to give.
What’s sad is that too many people can afford it but can’t let it go. Compromise blindly and letStep by step, in the end still can't keep the unintentional people. From then on, he became disheartened and "never believed in love again."
If things go on like this, your heart will be filled with disappointment like garbage. Finally one day, when a better person comes to you, you are left with only garbage to entertain him (her).
Don’t take love too seriously. Love is just a part of life, not life itself.
If a relationship takes up too much of your time and energy, it will inevitably lead to an imbalance in your life and work - in this way, even if you grit your teeth and persevere with perseverance in the short term, there will be a time when you can't hold on - and The day you can't hold it anymore is when this abnormal relationship will break.
Don’t overly wrong yourself for a relationship. Can be picked up and put down.
Only in this way can you avoid harm to the greatest extent and truly enjoy the fun of love.
