It seems that when Tantan is mentioned, it means dating. I feel that those men and women who play Tantan just want to date and seek excitement. Of course, this situation does exist, but most people who play Tantan In fact, I just played with a social mentality. Let me explain to you what is the mentality of women who play Tantan?
1. Curiosity mentality
Some women have been single for many years, but they really want to catch the tail of age-appropriate love! But the men around me, emm, I feel like they are all acquaintances and colleagues who have no way to start, and my friends around me don’t deliberately end up finding suitable partners for me. Suddenly I heard that so-and-so met his true love on Tantan and started to show off his love and happiness in the circle of friends. This deeply stimulates the nerves of older women, who feel that they are good-looking and popular. Although his academic qualifications are not 985, he is at least an undergraduate. At any rate, he is an adult with a decent appearance and a sound mind! So I went to play Tantan with the mentality of giving it a try.
Regardless of whether she finally found the person she was looking for on Tantan, she started playing Tantan with this kind of trying mentality from the beginning. This is the first mentality of a woman playing Tantan.
2. Vanity mentality
Some women are not outstanding in appearance and are ignored in the crowd. That one. But women actually have vanity. If she posts photos of her beauty on Tantan, it will make a lot of losers kneel down and lick her. This is a situation that will never happen in real life. Because of the nature of Tantan, the nature of being matched means that the other party affirms your personal charm, and nothing else. The feeling of satisfaction brought by every match is much better than being liked in the circle of friends. Women open app push notifications every day, and this kind of pleasure can come every minute and every second. It is simply enjoyment and surprise every moment.
3. Meet physiological needs
In fact, both men and women have their own physiological needs. Everyone has desires. It is not ruled out that some people actually find a partner on Tantan or have a successful hookup. After using Tantan, Banxin, Dianji and other apps, they all go their separate ways. There is no deeper relationship, they just go. If your heart does not wander, you may need to contact us again occasionally. This type of woman usually has unhappy emotional experiences in real life, so she uses Tantan to solve physical problems.
4. Social Fear
Some women do not like interpersonal communication and are lonely and lack friends, so download and explore Go and play. Because chatting on Tantan can start and end at any time, there is no need to passively accept it. Tantan is perfect and can match it, so she can play on it for a long time.
Or sometimes, women are exploring things that cannot be said in real life.Everyone can speak out without any hindrance. I am wandering alone in a big city, helpless and unbearably lonely, so I need to find someone to chat with. Tell the truth and vent your dissatisfaction in life. There are some things you can’t say to your family or friends. You don’t dare to write them in your diary. You can only find a stranger on the Internet to express all your inner feelings. After venting, you can’t It will have an impact on your life and your mood will get better, so why not do it?
