Only a responsible man can make women trust him with confidence, and responsibility is not determined by age. Some men are still immature even though they are older. What kind of behavior of a man will appear childish in the eyes of girls?
1. Deliberately flirting with others to attract attention
If you are in the pursuit stage, and the girl you like always keeps aloof from you, and you are not willing to be ignored by her, this is barely understandable, but if you are in the relationship stage, this kind of behavior can be described as death.
Many people are emotionally frustrated. For example, when a girl doesn’t pay attention to them because they are not attractive enough, they like to prove to her that they are still very popular with women through some attracting behaviors. If you ignore me, you will suffer. Do you think girls will be jealous or jealous, and they will immediately turn around and hug you and say: "Honey, I was wrong." Do you know, in fact, the girl's heart at this time is two words: "Haha!".
Don’t think that only men care about women’s loyalty. In fact, women often value men’s loyalty more seriously. These days, women who cheat may still choose to forgive, but when a man cheats, women will almost always give up very resolutely. In particular, the more financially free women are, the closer they are to zero tolerance for men's flirting with women.
No matter what the purpose of a man is to provoke other women, even if you deliberately make her jealous because you love her too much, it is still very embarrassing for a woman.
Although it was said earlier that this approach is more serious during the love stage, this does not mean that it is not childish to use this method to deliberately attract a girl’s attention during the pursuit stage.
In fact, the process of your pursuit is the process of a girl examining you. At this stage, if you want to attract her attention by deliberately making the girl jealous, it will be even worse for the girl to break up with you directly. Not even taking it into consideration.
This approach is actually one of the most common mistakes made by both men and women! When you find that you are not attractive enough and cannot get the attention of girls, strengthening yourself is the best way.
2. Too dependent on parents
Among the boys that girls hate the most, there is the mama boy kind.
The so-called mama’s boy is overly dependent on his mother. “My mother said, I can’t do anything, so you have to do the same.” “Don’t wear this, my mother doesn’t like it.” My mother said you are XXXXX, so let’s break up.”
Especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is such a sensitive topic. If a man listens to his parents too much, you will not be able to protect her interests when she has differences with your mother. , resulting in her becoming statusless after marrying into your family.
Therefore, a man who relies too much on his parents is like an unweaned little boy in the eyes of a woman, making her very insecure.feel. Only when a man is financially detached, has an independent personality, and does things without looking at his parents, can you have autonomy over your own love and marriage, and only then can a woman feel confident and bold to be with you.
3. Show off a small achievement
Many people may have experienced this when they were young. Experience, for example, in elementary school, any boy who changed into a pair of brand-name sneakers would proudly show off to his classmates how much he paid for the shoes, making the boys envious and the girls jealous.
Why do children like to show off so much? Because it can make you the focus of everyone's eyes and be noticed by everyone. This kind of attention is a powerful social resource that can help you get more among your friends. The right to speak.
But obviously for adults, this method of showing off is not only no longer an advantage, but has even become a disadvantage that is disliked by others. We Chinese people have a tradition of modesty since ancient times. We pay attention to high-profile things and low-key behavior. We are generally very disgusted with some people who like to show off.
When you have just achieved this achievement and share it with a girl, it will indeed increase your value in her heart, but if you always show it off and be proud of it, it will It's annoying.
Because you give people the impression that apart from this little thing, you have nothing else to offer. The more you talk about this every day, the more people feel your emptiness, just like a child. Buy I bought a beautiful new pencil case and wanted the whole class to know about it.
After a mature man has achieved something, he will use this as motivation to encourage himself to continue working hard, rather than as capital to show off.
