1. Calm down
When a boyfriend and girlfriend have an argument on the street, the first thing to do is to calm down. Being emotional will only aggravate the conflict and fail to solve the problem. You can try taking a few deep breaths to calm yourself down.
2. Find a quiet place
There are people coming and going on the street, and the noisy environment will make The quarrel became more complicated. Finding a relatively quiet place, such as a nearby cafe or park, can provide a better communication environment for both parties.
3. Listen to each other
After calming down and finding a quiet place, both parties should listen to each other’s perspectives and feelings. Don't interrupt the other person, listen carefully to what he/she has to say and try to understand the other person's position.
4. Express your feelings
After listening to the other person, it is your turn to express your feelings. Use an "I" tone to express your opinions and emotions instead of blaming the other person. For example, say "I feel hurt" instead of "You always hurt me."
5. Find solutions
After expressing your feelings, both parties should work together to find solutions to the problem. You can work together to discuss how to improve communication, reduce the frequency of arguments, or identify the root causes of arguments and find ways to resolve them.
6. Reconciliation
The ultimate goal is reconciliation and rebuilding trust and relationships. Both parties should be willing to compromise and be tolerant. Find a mutually acceptable solution through mutual understanding and respect.
7. Learn Lessons
Every argument is a learning opportunity. Male and female friends should learn lessons from the quarrel, reflect on whether their words and actions were appropriate, and how to better handle similar situations. Strong relationships can only be built through constant growth and improvement.
When a boyfriend or girlfriend gets into an argument on the street, calming down is the first priority. Then find a quiet place, listen to the other person's perspective and feelings, and express your own feelings. Next, both parties should work together to find a solution to the problem and eventually reconcile. Every argument is a learning opportunity, and friends of both sexes should learn from it and continue to grow and improve.
