Most girls can't stand loneliness. They always like to act together in twos and threes and like to travel with friends. There are also a small number of girls who are more withdrawn and like to be alone. Such aloof personalities are often more popular with boys.
But many boys have no idea how to pursue a lonely and aloof girl. I will teach you two methods below.
1. Correct your mentality
Chase this kind of aloof girl who likes to be alone , most boys will have a weak performance, which is a wrong mentality.
You must understand that no matter how aloof or lonely they are, they are still women after all. They also long to be loved, taken care of, and have a sense of security. We should not be fooled by their cold appearance. We should treat her as a normal girl. We should not think that a girl is cold so we should attract her in a cold way. There is no need to feel inferior. She is just a girl, she needs the company of a man, and what you have to do is to be that man.
2. Get to know her better and prescribe the right medicine
When you correct your mentality, After taking the first step to pursue her, you need to know the reason why this girl is aloof and likes to be alone. Only by taking the right medicine can you truly capture a girl's heart.
1. A loner who once got hurt and escaped
No girl likes to be alone, so this girl may have experienced the warmth and coldness of human relationships, and has seen boys chasing girls. Routine, insecure, and suspicious and resistant to all closeness to others. For this kind of girl, don't even think about going straight in, as you might be blocked at any time.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you can choose to start with her as a friend. Your purpose must be simple and clear at the beginning. You can start topics with girls from work, hobbies, etc. This is an icebreaker. stage, so don’t rush.
When a girl is willing to share some personal things with you, it means that the girl has begun to accept you, and you will upgrade to a friend relationship, but do not choose Express your feelings at this time, because this kind of girl has a very low sense of security, and your actions may cool down your relationship.
The most important thing you need to pursue this kind of girl is patience. Don’t think that you can impress her with a surprise and effort. Only by continuously deepening her trust in you and giving the girl a sense of security and dependence can you capture her. her heart.
2. The loner who is praised by others
There is such a type of girl who has been pampered since childhood. outstanding,She received more attention and care than others, and developed a character of going her own way. This kind of solitary behavior has a certain degree of showing off. It’s the kind of thing that when you praise her, she takes it for granted, but when you ignore her, she takes it for granted. Lost, feeling left out.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you have to let her see that you are different from other boys. This kind of girl will have a competitive spirit. You can use this kind of competitive spirit to keep your attitude in front of this kind of girl. Be confident and calm when getting along with girls, giving girls a feeling that they can't guess you. Stay confident in front of such girls, get along with girls calmly and calmly, and appropriately suppress some wrong behaviors of girls. Girls will feel that you are different from others. If you are different, you will not be favored.
3. Loneliness supported by strength
This type of girl has a very strong personality or They are relatively successful in their careers, their quality of life is very high, they do not need to rely on other people, and their lives are well organized.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you may not succeed if you want to use hard power, because you may not have the strength, or they do not need someone who is more self-centered than themselves in their psychology.
You can choose a roundabout strategy to avoid a direct conflict with her, and choose to affirm her achievements and strength. If a woman has a strong side, she will also have a fragile side. At this time, you can point out her vulnerability and express your empathy. , when she is willing to tell you her vulnerability, use actions to encourage and comfort her, tolerate her and care for her, and bring a sense of security to the girl. You will become unique to her.
