Quarrels are inevitable between couples. When my girlfriend asked me what else I wanted to say, I took a deep breath and decided to express my point of view. The following is what I want to say to her:
1. I love you
First of all, I want to tell you that no matter how many times we quarrel, I still love you deeply. Love is a kind of tolerance and understanding, and it will not be reduced by quarrels. Every time we had a fight, I would reflect on my mistakes and try to correct them. Because I know that only through communication and compromise can our relationship become stronger.
2. We need better communication
Communication is very important in our relationship . However, during past fights, I realized there was a miscommunication between us. Sometimes we get stuck in an emotional state and find it difficult to express our opinions rationally. So, I hope we can learn to calm down and communicate our thoughts and feelings with a calm tone and attitude.
3. Mutual respect is the foundation
Mutual respect is very important in our relationship. No matter how different our views and opinions are, we should respect each other's choices and decisions. Quarrel does not mean that we can hurt each other's feelings at will, but that we should solve the problem through rational discussion. Only on the basis of mutual respect can our relationship be healthier and stronger.
4. We need to learn to compromise
In any relationship, compromise is essential. When we encounter differences, we should learn to put aside our stubbornness and persistence and make compromises for the sake of our common happiness. This doesn’t mean I’m going to fully accommodate you, but hopefully we can find a balance that meets the needs of both parties.
5. We need to give each other space
In addition to communication and compromise, giving each other a certain amount of space is also Very important. Everyone has their own independent way of thinking and acting, and we should respect each other's personal space and privacy. Sometimes, taking some time to calm down and be alone can help us think better and process our emotions.
6. We must believe in each other
Finally, I want to tell you that we must believe in each other. No matter what difficulties and setbacks we encounter, as long as we stick together, support and encourage each other, we will be able to overcome everything. I believe our love is real and deep and can overcome any difficulty.
Fighting is not terrible, the key lies in how we face and solve problems. Through this quarrel, I realized that we still have a lot to improve. But please believe me, I will try to do better and work hard for our happiness.
