When we are passionately in love, due to hormonal reasons, we often can only see the advantages of the other person and think that both of us love each other deeply. However, the other person may not have you in their heart at all. In fact, as long as you pay more attention, you can definitely find the proof of love or non-love in getting along. So what will happen if your girlfriend doesn't have you in her heart?
What are the signs that your girlfriend doesn’t care about you?
1. Always stick to yourself
Two people are two different individuals. In a relationship, There will be some friction, as long as it doesn't involve principles or bottom lines, so that two people can get along better.
Therefore, if couples in love truly love each other, most of them will compromise for their feelings.
And if every time you have a conflict, you are the one who apologizes and gives in, then either you are used to her, or she doesn't have you in her heart at all.
People will always have the attitude of "I will never change it, I'm not wrong, that's just me, and my hobby is not good." Do you think it's irritating or not? No matter what, I am who I am, different fireworks, right? Then I think you'd better bloom alone, it's more beautiful.
2. Control you in the name of love
You treat this kind of person as your baby, and she You are a subordinate. She instills her values ??in you from time to time, and is so convinced that she is the truth that you not only have to listen, but you have to act.
When you say something, always start with "you must do something" and "you should do something".
But in fact, everyone knows that a positive and healthy relationship must be based on mutual respect. I really don’t need to say more about this. Of course, unless you are inclined in that direction, then just pretend I didn't say anything.
3. Vaccinations are constant
Have you ever thought like this, or heard similar words? :
I’ve been so tired recently, and I feel like we can’t get better.
I’m starting to stop loving you. Don’t you think there are a lot of problems between us? Am I the only one who finds it difficult?
I want to give up on this relationship. We have nothing now, so let’s not talk about the future. Let’s just live one day at a time. Anyway, I don’t want to be with you. Some people in the future may say this for the first time. Even if she said that, she would be surprised, but after being surprised, she began to reflect on whether that was what I thought.
It doesn’t matter that she didn’t understand it the first time. After the third or fourth time, she would always find the answer in her heart: Well, I don’t seem to like her that much.
However, for various reasons, it can beMaybe it's because she's afraid of hurting you, or she may be a little emotionally dependent. Anyway, she won't tell you directly. Some people may even guide you to talk about breaking up. If you hear similar words more and more, you need to think about it carefully.
Finally, let me say a few more words. Why do you sometimes feel that the other person does not love me when you are in love or in an ambiguous period, but sometimes it seems that he loves me very much.
But when you start to doubt, all you have to do is think about it, what does she like about me? Is it just me, or is it something unique to me?
If something like you disappears one day, will she still be with you?
