There are not so many reversals in real life. If your parents do not support the marriage, there are usually more or less problems in your marriage. You may feel that some of your parents’ ideas are outdated and backward. But the reason why many parents oppose this relationship is not without reason.
Young people who have never experienced marriage are actually too dismissive and optimistic about some difficulties that may be encountered in marriage in the future: because you have not experienced it, you feel that it is not difficult; because you have not really experienced it, you feel that it is a lot People are exaggerating.
More importantly, many times, we will be affected by subjective judgments, and only bystanders can see Only by understanding these issues can we truly understand the pros and cons, and parents are bystanders.
Therefore, as mentioned above, marriages that are not supported by parents generally have more or less problems.
But not all marriage relationships that parents oppose are hopeless. In fact, quite a few can change their parents’ minds. It can even be said that these feelings of parental disapproval do not affect the happiness of the marriage.
Some parents’ objections may not be really well-founded objections, but may be just for the sake of opposition: parents cannot accept children with this academic qualification, parents cannot accept children from other cities, and parents just think that you The twelve zodiac signs are the same...
Although the reasons for parents’ objections in those questions sound funny, they are really It is very common: Never look for people from any place, because the people in that place have bad personalities; never look for people who are engaged in this industry, because people who are engaged in this industry have no future.
And in this case, the opposing parents often have the idea of ????vetoing: no matter whether your target has other outstanding points, they will not consider the overall value of this person, just because of a single rejected due to factors.
This situation can often be reversed. Although it is also a marriage that is opposed by the parents, in this case, the parents' opposition is obviously a bit ill-considered. In this case, there is indeed a way that we can change the parents' perspective bit by bit.
So, if the relationship between you is like this: your parents object just for the sake of objecting. They just can't accept a certain point in the other person, but they don't know what the basis is; and, because of this, Your parents have just denied each other their full worth - and that situation can very well be reversed.
Although there is a gap between the two, it is not big and does not actually affect the marriage of the two people. You can also enter the marriage hall by changing your parents' ideas.
In fact, most parents and childrenThe son has conflicts in the marriage. In fact, the reason is very simple: parents believe that this kind of relationship and marriage cannot bring happiness to their children, but the children do not agree with this view.
So the underlying logic of changing your parents’ minds is actually very simple: you continue to show the changes this person has made to you, the positive changes this person has brought to you, so that your parents gradually begin to change their minds and realize that you The other half can have a positive impact on you. Under this constant guidance, your parents will naturally change their minds.
Therefore, if your parents object with reason, then I suggest you think carefully, because it is very likely that you think about the future development of your marriage too simply; if your parents object just for the sake of objecting, they The objections will not affect your future marriage development at all, then we don't need to feel frustrated because of our parents' objections. We can guide parents to change their minds and gain their blessings.
