Many men say, why didn’t they realize that she was so nagging before they got married? That’s because, before getting married, your lover was not a nagging person.
When you get into a marriage, some of your actions and the way you get along have made your wife a very nagging person.
Men should reflect on why their wives nag and why you don’t like her nagging. In fact, the reasons for my wife’s nagging are nothing more than the following three points:
1) Care about you
2) Keep a small notebook
3) You always don’t listen and don’t follow through
What should you do if your wife is very nagging in your marriage?
First, accept her concern. And respond
You must know consciously and conceptually that everything she said is for your own good. Even if it's not just for you, it's also for this family, so don't reject it. But think about how to accept the move.
You can accept that she cares about you because she has no bad intentions. So try to match her ideas. She knows you will do what she says, so she won't stress over it.
Second, take the initiative to chat with her, listen and talk to each other
Maybe you want to be quiet when you go home, I don't want to spend the whole night nagging her. Then you can find a fixed time with him. For example, half an hour before going to bed or while eating. When you have a period of time to chat, you can listen to her specifically. It is best if you also talk to him about some of the things you have encountered in your life.
Regardless of whether he can understand it or not, if you are willing to tell him, he will feel very happy.
Some men talk a lot outside and become silent as soon as they come home, which can make their wives very hurt. Active communication and communication are helpful to enhance your relationship and reduce her worries about your relationship. It will also make her think less of those unhappy things.
Third, do what you promised and say what you don’t like.
If she If I tell you something or remind you something, then if you agree in person, you must do it. Of course, many men don't like being bossed around by women, and they don't like having a new mother just after they left their mother.
You should make it clear to her which things you will agree to and which things you are just not willing to accept.
Make it clear what you don’t want to do, so that she won’t try to persuade you in the future. Of course, people grow and change. Maybe you will want to do things in the future that you didn’t want to do before. For example, I didn’t want to quit smoking before, but I feel sick recently and I want to quit smoking. Then you can comfort her and tell her that she was right.
If it is an issue of principle or unnecessary issue in your opinion, there is no need to change or listen to her. Just make it clear. Don't be afraid of your wife in front of her, and don't follow through behind her back. Otherwise she will become more and more nagging.
