???????????????What are the characteristics of aloof girls? They are always very calm about things, especially when chatting. You may say that she is dismissive of you, but she can reply to your messages seriously; you may think that she is responsive to you, but her attitude makes you feel like you are facing an eternal ice. In fact, many girls in life are a bit aloof, both in appearance and personality. When facing a girl like this, you feel that no matter how hard you try to pursue her, you are hitting the cotton wool. However, often such girls are so good that people don't want to give up their pursuit of her easily.
However, there is no ice in this world that cannot be melted, and there is also no cold goddess that cannot be talked about.
Here I will tell you how to chase a cold girl:
1. Don’t be too enthusiastic
Don’t be too enthusiastic when facing her To be enthusiastic, you must not stick to her too actively. If you do this, you will become a fly in her eyes. The girl's first reaction at this time is how to drive you away. So at this time, what you have to do is to make her arrogant. You are more arrogant than her, she is indifferent, you are even more indifferent than her, you talk and laugh with every girl around her, but you just don’t dump her.
2. Care from time to time
All details, such as breakfast, medicine when sick, good night text messages every night, remember the few things she said, in fact These are small things, but if you insist on doing them, they will be moved and even think that you are more reliable than other boys. In their hearts, they are lonely and need care. If you can give them warmth for a long time, they will feel that you are more reliable than other boys. If they get used to your existence, then Bai Fumei will also be devoted to you.
3. Guide her into your situation
When she starts to get more and more confused about you, she will have a strong desire to understand who you are. Men, at this time, you should guide her deeper into your situation, and then take the opportunity to capture her.
4. Gifts of love and warm words
For girls like them who are extremely insecure, the most reliable thing is real warmth, a shoulder and an embrace, and companionship and affection. They are always reluctant to say much. When they are sad, they need comfort from others, but they never say it, so you need to pay attention to them from time to time. When you find that they are unhappy, you must ask them as soon as possible. At this time, they will confide in you, but if you ask them again later, they will definitely not tell you again, they will only say that it is okay, because they feel the saddest time, when you don't know what the meaning is now.
5. Don’t always ask them what they want
You have to discover for yourself that the friends, besties, and roommates around them can make good use of it at this time, because no matter how cold-blooded the girls are, they are relaxed when they are with their besties. They usually have a circle, and you You need to integrate into this circle as much as possible. If you can get the people around her to help you, then you will have won half the battle. Generally, the way to win over your best friends is to give food and drinks. The key is that you have to clearly express your interest in the girl. Like, best friends are very happy to help you. If you take the initiative to give her what she wants, then why should she reject you. So what you need, of course, depends on your best friend.
6. Be more domineering
Generally, aloof girls prefer boys who are more domineering. There is no reason. This seems to be a law. For example, they sometimes don’t go to eat because they are too lazy. , you have to be more forceful, they like this feeling, but the dominance I am talking about here is definitely not hegemony. They need enough free space. It is not good if you have a serious desire to control. The so-called bad boys should be It's relatively popular.
7. Occasionally a little romance
But don’t want the kind of luxurious romance outdoors. All they need is a meal you cooked and a song you sang, yes. , no girl does not like romance, but for different girls. Romance comes in different ways.
8. Believe her, they don’t like explanations
They won’t say anything if they misunderstand her. When everyone misunderstands her, give her trust. In fact, it is best to face such a girl. Done, you just need to tell her I believe you, then she will be very moved and will let down her guard against you.
You need to understand the characteristics of aloof girls first and then think about how boys can pursue aloof girls. Based on the above method, I estimate that you won’t be so flustered when facing aloof girls. Boys, if you like her, you should be brave enough to pursue her.