The most feared thing in a relationship is deception. Although lies can be divided into good intentions and malicious ones, no matter what kind of deception we definitely don’t want to accept. After all, a relationship full of lies is difficult to last. So how do you recognize a relationship? Are girls lying to you?
We can look at a typical example:
In the Hangzhou murder case that touched people's hearts a while ago, the suspect was the victim's husband. My pillow person day and night.
My wife was missing for two days and she chose to call the police at the urging of my nephew. We will not talk about this for now.
Let’s focus on analyzing some of his micro-expressions and micro-movements during the interview.
You must have watched the video of the criminal suspect being interviewed more than once. Let’s briefly analyze it.
One, with flashing eyes and high-pitched tone.
When his wife has been missing for a long time and has not been found, the husband not only does not feel worried or anxious, but calmly describes to reporters how bizarre the disappearance is. There was even a hint of excitement in his words.
No one knows how anxious people are and how high-pitched their tone is when trying to defend themselves. They always try to prove to everyone that they are right by raising their voices.
However, the effect of this is really unsatisfactory.
Everyone knows that the more guilty you are, the more you try to hide it.
Second, the disgust revealed by language and body.
The reason why an intimate relationship is called an intimate relationship is because in this relationship, each other hides many secrets that cannot be known to outsiders.
Moreover, when one party is belittled by outsiders, the other party must try his best to defend it.
When the criminal suspect blurted out the words "with her IQ", his disgust could no longer be concealed.
The nasolabial folds and upper lip are tightly wrinkled, which is a typical expression of contempt. The tighter the facial features are, the deeper the degree of disgust is.
3. Nervous body movements.
Many people think that criminal suspects are calm and relaxed when facing interviews.
Yes, this is indeed the case in most cases. Still, there were moments when his nervousness came through.
For example, when facing an interview, he did not face the camera. When faced with reporters’ questions, he took several steps back. This is a typical escape reaction.
In daily life, when we talk to a girl, we can observe the distance between her and ourselves. If you take a few steps forward and the other party subconsciously steps back, the other party is using her body to reject you.
At this time, we should stop in timecurrent behavior, and change the topic to a lighter and pleasant topic to lighten the atmosphere.
In reality, the bad guy will not tell us his purpose, and the scumbag will not tell us that she is here for free.
However, micro-expressions and micro-movements are generated subconsciously and cannot deceive people.
When a person’s micro-expression does not match the spoken words, it will make people feel uncomfortable. Although we may not be able to tell exactly what is wrong, our intuition tells us that there is something wrong.
Sometimes, you have to trust your intuition.
Especially in terms of relationships, when our partner shows a disgusted micro-expression while saying sweet words to us, we have to think carefully about whether there is something wrong.
