Suppression is a way for boys to flirt with girls. However, many girls will use this method to deal with boys who are pursuing them. So how should boys deal with suppression from girls who like them?
1. Get the head start
There is a saying that the more something is lacking, the more people love to show off/prove something. If a person really has the kind of shortcomings she mentioned, he will subconsciously identify them for himself. For example, if a girl tells you that you are a man, you say: "Who said that? I obviously respect girls, and when I was with you before, I baaaaaaaa."
Often This kind of excuse will make you look very ungraceful and unstable. And saying that being anxious will cause a girl to have a rebellious mentality, and no matter what the real situation is, she will think like this in her heart: "Oh, look, being so anxious doesn't mean that I was right."
Dare to accept it Making fun of yourself through what the other person says is a sign of confidence, showing that you are not guilty and confident about yourself, and it can also make girls think that you are a humorous person.
If a girl says you are naive, you can say: "Well, that's right, my nephew participated in the children's voice competition last week, and I sang for him and he won the top three."
< p> When a girl says you are not handsome, you can say: "Hey, if you go with me, others will think I am rich."
2. Treat suppression as flirting
Some suppression is full of logical flaws. As long as you are not beaten to the point of confusion, not only is it not a bad thing, but it can also become a way for you to flirt with girls. tools.
For example, if a girl says you are too short, how tall a boy does she like? Often boys who do not meet this condition will become anxious and at a loss. In fact, you can respond like this at this time: "If you date me, you won't have to stand on tiptoe to kiss me in the future."
The girl says: "Whatever you like about me, I will change." You can say: " I like your way of correcting your mistakes when you realize them.”
3. Take advantage of your own frame
< p> As mentioned before, girls’ purpose of suppressing you includes lowering your frame so that you can increase your investment. In this case, we need to stick to our own framework and turn what she considers shortcomings into advantages.A girl says: "I see a lot of ugly people, but I am the first one to see a narcissistic person." You can say: "That's because you are so beautiful, your appearance is beyond I have too many people to think that an average person like me is ugly.”
The girl said: “I don’t think we have a common language.” You can say: “A smart person like me can. There are really too few people who can talk to me.”
The last thing I did after being suppressed.What I'm afraid of is having random thoughts and getting myself into trouble. Many people become disheartened or angry after a few words from a girl, and end up unhappy. It doesn't matter if you are suppressed by a girl. What matters is that you can deal with it calmly and tactfully.
As long as you can break her suppression a few times in a row, a girl will never try to suppress you again.
Girls are not afraid that boys have shortcomings. She is just afraid that you are not strong enough and have no ability to lead her and take care of her. As long as you have these abilities, she won't take it to heart even if you have a little shortcoming.
