Under normal circumstances, if your girlfriend doesn’t want to get back together after a breakup, she may just stay away from each other until death. Then suddenly one day she starts contacting you. Does she want to get back together?
Let’s find out what’s going on when your ex-girlfriend starts contacting you.
1. Want to get back together
Maybe you broke up because your girlfriend felt that you had no money and there was no hope of being with you. But after the breakup, you held your breath and became famous. At this time, your ex-girlfriend came to your door and took the initiative to contact you. How determined she was to break up with you back then, how eager she is to get back together with you today. Maybe she will remind you of the beautiful past between you, and she will also call you when she is vulnerable, hoping to arouse your pity. Regarding this situation, the editor's suggestion is that no matter how much you can't let go of her, regardless of whether you have a current girlfriend or not, your ex-girlfriend is just a person who can share joys and sorrows, so please think twice before getting back together. Of course, it's best if you don't have any intention of getting back together.
2. I want something from you
In fact, many times your ex-girlfriend doesn’t want to take the initiative to contact you. Yes, after all, how deeply I loved you back then, you have so much grudge now. But if your ex-girlfriend has a reason to ask you to help, and she can’t find anyone else to help, she might take the initiative to contact you. For example, if she cannot remember the password for something very important, she will try to ask you if you remember it. Or maybe it's the end of the year and she's short of money and wants to borrow money from you. You, your ex-boyfriend, definitely won't mind. Even if she encounters an emergency when she goes out and is desperate, she calls you from memory... In this regard, the editor just wants to say that if you can help under legitimate circumstances, I will help you. As for borrowing money, , or said something else.
3. I want to know about your current situation
Sometimes, when two people are together, they feel something Neither of them are pleasing to the eye, but after they were separated, they missed each other very much. This may be what we often say, distance brings beauty. Occasionally, I still think of my ex. After all, some people never really let go of the relationship after breaking up. The person they love most in their heart is still the same person from the beginning. Therefore, sometimes when your ex-girlfriend takes the initiative to chat with you, she just wants to know how well the person she likes is doing after leaving her. She has no other purpose, and she does not want to get back together with you.
4. Wants you to take over
When you separated, your ex-girlfriend felt that she could I have found a better partner, so I will definitely break up with you. But after going around in circles, she found that among the men she had ever dated, you were still the best. So I came to contact you and pester you again. This situation is somewhat similar to the first one, anywayThey all found that they couldn't find anyone better, so they made do with you. It's not an exaggeration to say that they treated you as a successor.
It is not ruled out that your ex-girlfriend started contacting you because she sincerely wanted to get back together with you, but you broke up at the beginning, can you really stay together for a long time now? And you don’t know what happened after the breakup. What has your ex-girlfriend been through? It is recommended that even if you want to get back together, you should give both parties more time to understand each other before making a decision.