It is indeed time for men to start a family and start a business when they are 30 years old, but in real life, according to the content, many of them have not found a girlfriend at the age of 30, let alone getting married. Then do you know why men still can’t find a girlfriend when they are 30 years old?
1. After all, a man is older when he is 30 years old
A man is actually older when he is 30 years old. Women who are basically the same age and are not yet married are either looking for money or have no money. Don't even think about it, or you have no interest in love itself, it doesn't matter whether you have a partner, or you may even just stay celibate. You probably don't like women of the same age who don't care about money and want to get married and fall in love.
There are many young men in their twenties competing for girls who are twenty years old and interested in dating and marriage. Those young men are young, energetic, interesting and have no generation gap. , just because you are older, you are inferior to those young guys. Maybe the young girls still feel that there is a generation gap with you! If you don’t have money or talent, then that girl isn’t stupid. Wouldn’t she take a shower even if she’s older than you?
2. It is difficult for a 30-year-old man to change
A man in his 30s still cannot find a woman Friends, many times it is because of inertia. Think about it: over the age of 30, not only is it difficult to find a girlfriend, but it is also difficult to actively change yourself. If you can't find a girlfriend when you are 20 years old, it may be due to your own shortcomings in many cases, such as not being good-looking enough, not tall enough, or having poor financial conditions, but with that impulse, you are more or less willing to make changes. Work out, study, and work to make money. But at the age of 30, it is easy for people to enter a stable state, inertia has been formed, and it is difficult to change themselves.
3. Problems of 30-year-old men
There may be many people saying that although I am 30 years old, my financial conditions and personal abilities are quite good. Why do I still encounter problems? What about a girlfriend who is not happy? Because it’s not just this reason that you can’t find the object, there are other reasons as well.
For example, boys’ own conditions are very good. They are both excellent in appearance and internally. Compared with their peers, their academic qualifications, economic conditions and other conditions are all superior. ", but they often have a mentality of preferring nothing to nothing and stubbornly looking for the ideal "dream lover". As a result, I have never been able to get out of singles.
Some men are busy with work, have a monotonous life, and their circle is too small. The older you get, the probability of meeting love will only become smaller and smaller. After all, men and women in big cities have to work every day and live a life of two points and one line. The circle is too small, and many of the same age around them are also married. , it becomes more difficult to meet the right person.
Moreover, if a good 30-year-old man is still single, many people will question you, thinking that you may have character or family problems, or that you are unwilling to look for someone, or that they think you have been single for a long time. .
In short, if a man in his thirties does not even have a partner, he should quickly find the reason within himself and see where he is lacking. Study more by yourself. If you don’t have money, make money. If you don’t know how to chat, learn how to communicate. It doesn’t mean you have to chat with girls. Just be natural and decent. Participate in more activities, meetings and so on. It’s not a big deal. On a blind date, you can always meet the right person, and you won't be afraid of being late for a good meal. And to be honest, it doesn't matter even if you really can't fall in love or get married. Being single is fine. Anyway, it's not like you can't live without a girl without getting married.
