As the saying goes, "Since ancient times, deep love cannot be retained, only tricks can win people's hearts." Many boys have never been able to chase the girl they like, not because they have problems with their own conditions, but because they have wrong methods. Below, I will share with you some correct methods for chasing girls.
What are the ways to chase girls?
1. Don’t be impatient, take it step by step
As the saying goes, if you are impatient, you can’t eat hot tofu, and you will chase women. The same is true when you are a child. Don't rush to confirm the relationship with the other party, and don't rush to ask for a definite answer from the other party, because this will make the girl think that you are very hasty and frivolous. You are anxious to be together, so it is also a very good choice to start as friends. After all, it takes a process to get to know each other, and of course you must perform well during this process. Let girls think that you are a boy who is very suitable as a boyfriend and is excellent in all aspects. However, you must pay attention to a certain standard. Don't cross the line of being a friend. Keep a good balance, don't respond to every request, and don't be too attentive so that girls can't guess your thoughts.
2. Start from another direction
The most taboo thing about liking a girl is to stalk her , pursue her fiercely, and only circle around her every day. In fact, try to find other directions and start from other directions, such as pleasing the people around the girl, to understand the girl’s preferences and interests, and let the girl The child knows that you care about her very much, and the people around her will also see your kindness and say good things for you. And you can also get along with the girl's friends, and after forming a good relationship network, you can openly ask the girl you like out, bring your friends around, everyone will have fun together, and the atmosphere will be very pleasant. , in this case girls are more likely to be interested and curious about you.
3. Deliberately neglecting the other party
No matter what kind of relationship you are in, distance can always produce beauty, so when a boy is pursuing a girl, you must not Sticking to the other person all the time, snubbing the other person appropriately, and giving the other person a little sense of loss will leave a deeper impression on her than your attentiveness. For example, if you often chat with a girl you like, but choosing some specific holidays to ignore her will make the girl feel very itchy. At this time, you are also full of mystery and challenge, which will make the girl feel uncomfortable. You are more interested.
4. Confess your feelings immediately after the ambiguous period
After two people have been together for a period of time, if they are interested in each other, If you have a good impression, an ambiguous relationship will arise. At this time, you should actually attack as soon as possible, andThe attitude must be clear. If you have been ambiguous with a girl for a long time, the two of you will lose the feeling of love, and even become devoid of freshness and passion. Moreover, a long-term ambiguous relationship will make people very insecure. So you can take the initiative to confess your love at this time, but you must remember that when you confess your love, you must show a sincere heart to impress the other party. This will have a greater chance of success.
