The test of whether a relationship is true love is never how good the other person is to you, but whether the other person is willing to face you together when you are in trouble. Difficulties are like a mirror, it can reflect the true feelings and falsehoods in the world.
Whether a person truly loves you does not depend on how good he is to you when you are prosperous, but how bad he treats you when you are down.
1. Love is not about fighting alone, it is about fighting together
What is love?
To put it simply: Love means that life is difficult. Find someone to share the burden with you and face the ups and downs.
The love story of Yuan Longping, the "father of hybrid rice", is such a story.
When he was young, Yuan Longping had been concentrating on research. He was still single in his 30s and did not marry Deng Ze until he was 34 years old.
After marriage, Deng Ze was not only Yuan Longping’s wife, but also his work partner.
The two often study rice in the experimental fields under the scorching sun. Later, they actually found 6 natural male sterile strains and published these results, which attracted the attention of national leaders.
On the road of scientific research, his wife has always supported him.
In order to cultivate hybrid rice, Yuan Longping went to the Provincial Academy of Agricultural Sciences. The couple had been separated for more than 20 years. , Deng used his thin shoulders to shoulder all family responsibilities.
Yuan Longping also loved his wife very much, and always felt that he was doing her a disservice. He once wrote a poem to his wife:
A person is like a grain of dust, no matter how it flies, No matter how noisy, in the end, it will still fall on the land of his own family. A husband is like a fallen leaf. No matter how public he is or how he changes from green to red, he will still fall on his wife's side in the end.
I deeply believe that true love is not about fighting alone, but fighting together.
A good relationship must achieve each other's achievements, share the wind and rain, and move towards the same goal.
2. True love is sharing the joys and sorrows
Love in the world is not always smooth sailing, it all goes through ups and downs rain.
The love story of Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu is the best interpretation.
During the period when Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu returned to China, they often got together less and separated more, and it was even more difficult to survive under the oppression of the Anti-Japanese War.
Once, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang had just returned home after watching a play written by Yang Jiang. Qian Zhongshu said with emotion: "I want to write a novel."
Yang Jiang was very happy after hearing this: "I want to be the first person to review it."
< p> However, Qian Zhongshu is worried that he will not have time to create, and his life is relatively tight, and he still has to make money..Yang Jiang comforted him and said: "It doesn't matter, we can reduce the teaching time. Our life is very frugal, and we can be more frugal."
At that time, the daughter of Yang Jiang's family happened to be The servant wants to go back because life in his hometown has improved.
Yang Jiang had to chop wood to cook food, light a fire, wash clothes and other tiring tasks. Yang Jiang is a layman, and his face is often stained by soot, or his eyes are full of tears, or he is blistered by boiling oil.
It was with the support of Yang Jiang that Qian Zhongshu's "Fortress Besieged" was completed.
There are many people in this world who will accompany you through the good times, but there are very few people who are willing to accompany you through the troughs.
It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is rare to provide help at a critical time.
Good love is when two people cross rivers, walk through thorns, share the wind and rain, and never leave.
Only love that can share joys and sorrows is worth our risk.
The best love is a two-way love that can withstand both suffering and prosperity.
In the long road of life, you must share the prosperity of the world and bear the wind and rain with the people who love you.
