Some boys spend a lot of effort chasing girls, but in the end they chase girls further and further away. Some boys do nothing, and are often surrounded by a large group of girls, and there is no shortage of girlfriends. So what is the reason why these boys can attract girls without doing anything?
1. Confidence
Regardless of whether you really feel good about yourself from the bottom of your heart, at least you have to show a confident posture in front of others.
When facing the girl you like, be calm and don’t be in a hurry to lower yourself. We are all equal, why can’t you express your opinion?
Don’t always compare your own shortcomings with other people’s strengths. Isn’t that asking for trouble?
Who doesn’t have a shortcoming? The most important thing is what your strengths are and who you are. What is shown to others.
For example, even if you are not tall, there is no need to hide it or deliberately avoid it. What's wrong with being short? You have good proportions, you look good in clothes, you are talented, can others do it?
Besides, do you think that if you hide it deliberately, others won't be able to see it?
< p> Rather than being secretive, you should show your strengths openly and openly, neither being humble nor overbearing. You will find that girls will be more interested in getting to know you.2. Optimism
Everyone has times when they feel sad or can’t lift their spirits, and they don’t want to Talking, just want to be alone and quiet.
But for some people, when you think back to the time you spent with him, you will find that he seems to be happy at all times.
Does he really have nothing to worry about?
How is it possible? Who is not a mortal who eats whole grains?
It’s just like some People are always used to complaining. There is a kind of person who is used to facing unsatisfactory things with a positive attitude, digesting the unpleasantness himself, and then facing others with a smile.
Even if they encounter great setbacks, they will not allow themselves to be in a low state for a long time, but will adjust their emotions as soon as possible.
Who wouldn’t like such an optimistic person?
3. Steady
What is stability? Isn’t it just being calm when things happen, being confident and polite when meeting others?
When we see a girl we like, we do what we should do, and show the courtesy and courage we should have. Keep the proper distance, don't try to please people, and don't keep people away from you thousands of miles away.
Even if the other person is a heartthrob, she will think: Oh? He is different from other boys, he is kind of interesting~
PeopleWell, the more you rush to get there, the less you cherish it. On the contrary, those who have their own attitude often arouse girls' curiosity.
4. Entrepreneurship
Girls do not necessarily like rich people, but they definitely like motivated people; Not everyone will like those who are successful in their careers, but they will definitely like those who are enterprising.
In their eyes, a boy who is serious about his career means that he must be a responsible and missionary person. These hidden qualities are much more important than money.
Or in other words, for a career-minded boy, girls don’t have to worry about him not making money.
Because they always have a cool head and know what to do at what time.
Even if you are in love, you will always maintain your independent personality and have a clear goal plan for yourself.
Knowing that writing a bad check will not do you any good, you will make real efforts.
