Being single is a problem that troubles many boys nowadays. It’s not that they don’t want to look for it, but they can never find a suitable partner. It was fine when they were young, but as they grow older, it becomes more and more difficult. Troubled by this problem. Have you ever wondered why you haven't been able to find a girlfriend?
Why can't I find a girlfriend?
1. "I have no money, don't waste her youth"
Now it seems that money has become a measure The only standard of love.
Many boys think that as long as they have no money, finding someone to be their girlfriend is a waste of their youth.
As a result, as I got older at this age, my family couldn’t push me anymore, so I could only go on blind dates over and over again, but I still didn’t like them.
Some people will also find that the girl they like is with another boy. The drama is that the boy is actually not as good as themselves.
The reason why quite a few boys think that I can fall in love only if I have money. It is because society, parents, and many other external voices have implanted some illusions in thinking.
I even make generalizations. When I see a girl, especially a good-looking one, I immediately draw the conclusion: This girl must be pursued by many rich people.
But have you ever thought about it, this kind of thinking is just boys imposing their own very childish ideas on most girls.
2. "She loves to play so much, so she may not be a good partner"
Many boys see a girl If you have a good drinking capacity, you will have the idea that you are probably quite fun-loving and cannot control it.
Or if you see a girl working vigorously and resolutely in the workplace, you will think: This feeling is too strong and I can't control it.
If you only see one side of a person, you deny all aspects of the person, do not distinguish between true and false, and stick to your own ideas.
Children know that you have to taste something to know whether it tastes good or not. How can you make a judgment just by looking at it?
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3. “She is so good, but I am not worthy of her.”
“This girl is so good, but I am not worthy of her.”
And this feeling It will be directly reflected in your own behavior. He doesn't dare to look at girls, he only praises them and denies his own value.
Originally, the girl might have a good feeling for you, but as a result, the more you deny yourself, the less interested she becomes in you.
Because according to the law of attraction, the scene that a person recognizes in his heart will slowly appear in his life.
For example, if you think a girl is aloof, you will find out that sheNot replying to your message. If you think a girl has many suitors, then you will see the gifts others give her.
The world you see is the projection in your heart.
In fact, the root cause of everything is your inferiority complex. When you think that you are not worthy of others, you will feel uncomfortable all over. Then what you say will make your behavior more and more awkward. .
But when you recognize your own shining points and become confident, you will of course look very natural in front of girls.
And being able to be natural and casual in front of the girl you like is exactly a reflection of the high value of boys, and will attract more attention from girls.
Believe me, there is no question of whether love is worthy or not, only whether it is suitable or not.
