The first thing we need to do when chasing girls is not to make them like them, but to make them not disgusted. So in the eyes of girls, which type of boys disgust them the most? Let’s find out together.
1. Too strong a sense of gain and loss and purposefulness
There is a sense of gain and loss when chasing girls. Purpose is also a very normal thing. After all, this is something that requires time and money. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get the results you want quickly.
However, love is not about buying things. How can you get results so quickly?
Some boys are too impatient to wait: Do you like me? You come every now and then. Talk to me, you just like me, admit it...
Hey, why don't you let me touch you anymore? What's wrong if I touch you? Who are you pretending to be innocent with?
< p> Don't pretend, I know, you girls are the honest ones who say you don't want your body...Yes, I admit that if a boy likes you and pursues you, he will not want to possess you. It's impossible that I don't have desire for you. The problem is that these guys don't hide it. They just write their purpose and possessiveness on their faces. They have a "date them out if they love you" attitude from the very beginning. What's wrong with this? How can I win the favor of girls?
Therefore, if you pursue girls with too strong a sense of gain and loss and purpose, it is very easy to cause resentment in girls.
Therefore, when we first start chasing girls, it is best for us to get along as friends first, and then slowly transition to good feelings between men and women before considering future matters.
2. "Client thinking"
In addition to having a strong focus on gains and losses and being overly purposeful, there is another type of thinking: The behavior of boys is also very disgusting to girls, which is the "client mentality".
In short, the "client thinking" is to treat all feelings as a transaction and think that it can be settled by spending money.
In the process of chasing girls, there are generally two main manifestations: the first is to like to show off and brag about yourself, thinking that as long as you are rich and powerful enough, you can conquer you; the second is to ignore Girls want to force girls to pay unilaterally. After girls don’t pay, they will think that girls are incredible, and then become angry...
And these types of boys also have these more typical thoughts:
You said I am so rich, why doesn’t she like me?
I have spent money on her, how can any man be so kind to her? Shouldn’t she be moved?
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This kind of little girl is stupid. If she doesn’t look for me, why should she look for a poor boy to eat braised vegetables? Sure enough, some people really deserve to be poor!
In their eyes All the emotional problems are related to themOn the one hand, they show off their own value, but on the other hand, when someone really likes them, they start to murmur whether those people are taking advantage of them.
3. Love to tell dirty jokes
When boys get along with each other, there will inevitably be some Pornographic jokes, and such jokes will not only not affect the relationship between the two parties, but may also play a role in promoting the relationship.
But when getting along with girls, if you regard telling dirty jokes as your own humor, girls will only label you as "vulgar" in their hearts! This is very disgusting to them.
