I don’t know if you have ever encountered such a situation. You used to have a good chat with a girl, but recently the girl suddenly became cold and ignored you. Could it be that the girl found out that you like her, and she thinks you both Or is it better to be friends, so I deliberately stay distant from you? Or does it mean that the girl has someone else she likes? Or maybe the girl's coldness is a test for you to see if you will take the initiative to chat with her? What are girls thinking?
1. Girls don’t know your attitude
Generally speaking, girls are more sensitive than boys. Maybe there is some problem between you that makes her hesitate. After all, girls are emotional animals. , she may have considered it more. Think carefully about whether you did something that made her think too much and made her angry; or your interest in her was not obvious, making her feel that you were too proactive and wanted to test you; or the girl was too interested in your relationship. Not sure, lack the courage to continue chatting with you; or the girl originally didn’t dislike you and thought she could give it a try, but you were nagging and refused to do so; the girl might have tested you, but you were shy and did not express your intention at the time. , in order to reduce the harm to herself, she has a cold attitude towards you. If it is the above situation, you have to make the girl feel safe enough and take the initiative to contact the girl more, so that the girl can continue with you!
p>2. The girl gave up on you
Maybe the girl discovered some shortcomings in you that are intolerable, or she learned something about you from other people’s mouths and chose to give up on you. Actually, I think this kind is better, because you can correct and explain this kind of thing, but the other kind that follows is more disgusting. It's possible that you were a girl's new love during the window period, and then her old love came back and the girl gave up on you. For the second situation, you'd better turn around and leave without looking back. Such a girl won't know that you are pursuing her.
3. Girls are jealous
Maybe girls like you, but you make girls jealous (maybe You collected a girl’s things, or she found out when you got up in the morning to chat with other girls) Generally, if you don’t find out, it will only make her more angry, but after a while, girls will not be able to help but look for you. Or maybe you did something that made a girl very unhappy, and she is thinking about whether it is worth it to like you, so she wants to check your attitude (generally if you apologize, she will treat it like nothing happened).
If you like that girl, ask her directly why she is ignoring you, and sound a little aggrieved; if you don’t like that girl and you are just a friend, ask her directly and use the words that are closer and more aggrieved. Polite tone.
Summary: When chasing boys, you should keep half of it, and of course, you should keep half of it when chasing girls. You controlAre girls being cold towards you? As long as the girl doesn't clearly reject you and tells you not to bother her anymore, etc. You can continue your pursuit, greetings and romantic surprises, those classic routines are often the best at winning beauties back. You have to remember that a girl's unclear rejection basically means that you will continue to pursue her by default.
