I like a girl, but she thinks I'm not mature enough. This makes me feel confused and helpless, what should I do? Below are my thoughts and suggestions.
1. Listen carefully to the other party’s opinions
When we are pointed out our shortcomings by others, the first The response may be resistance or denial. However, if we can calm down, listen carefully to each other's opinions, and find valuable suggestions from them, then we can better improve ourselves.
2. Seek help and support
If we find that we do have some problems and need to improve our maturity, then we can take the initiative to seek help and support. For example, you can ask your elders, friends, or professionals around you for advice and learn from their experiences and skills.
3. Read more and think more
Maturity is not a process that is achieved overnight. It requires us to continuously accumulate knowledge and experience, and to think deeply. Therefore, we can read more, think more, and expand our horizons and ways of thinking.
4. Take action
The most important thing is that we need to put theory into practice and prove through action that we have become more mature. For example, we can take the initiative to take responsibility, deal with problems, actively participate in social activities, etc.
When we are pointed out our shortcomings by others, we should not resist or deny, but should listen carefully to the other person's opinions and seek help and support. At the same time, read more, think more, and put theory into practice, so that we can gradually improve our maturity.
